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You Have The Right To Be…


You Have The Right To Be…

Narcissistic people take so much from so many of us. After leaving these chaotic and irrational people, we feel at a loss.

We feel like we don’t have the right to think, feel and behave in certain ways.

But no one but you/us knows the war we escaped. You have the right to feel whatever way you feel.

Never let anyone tell you otherwise.

You Have The Right To Be…

You Have The Right To Be…Angry. Angry at what the narc did to you.

You Have The Right To Be…Depressed. Depressed at seeing the person you LOVED fade away because that person you loved just never existed.

You Have The Right To Be…Vengeful. So vengeful that all it does is occupy your every waking second. Thoughts flowing of all the horrible things you can do to that person.

You Have The Right To Be…Hurt. Hurt that you lost so much time, money, energy, self-love, and self-respect.

You Have The Right To Be…Anxious. So anxious that you no longer trust people around you.

You Have The Right To Be…Stressed. So stressed that you can no longer function the way you use to BEFORE you met the narc.

You Have The Right To Be…Pitiful. So pitiful that you wallow in a pool of your tears.

You Have The Right To Be…HUMAN. You are allowed to make mistakes and to learn from them.

You Have The Right To Be…

You Have The Right To Be…Happy. Happy that you met this person. Because they did not make you weak. They made you stronger because they made you wiser.

You Have The Right To Be…Strong. So strong that you will NEVER allow someone like that back into your life.

You Have The Right To Be…Healed. Healed so much that your story of chaos and how you overcame the chaos becomes the blueprint for someone else in the same situation.

You Have The Right To Be…Cheery. Cheery that you have gotten your freedom back. And Cheery at the thought that YOU ARE YOU and THEY ARE THEM. And who they are…is a mess.

You Have The Right To Be…A HERO. A hero of your own story. A legend that escaped the living embodiment of chaos. Escaping a war that NO ONE but yourself knows, and yet you came out of it stronger, wiser and better.

You Have The Right To Be…YOU!

Be you because there is no greater revenge we can ever have on a narc who has tried their best to steal us…from us.

Be You!

Because you have the right to be you.

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Reason87

I call myself the Rational Humorist. Narcs to me are cancer to humanity. The only way to beat cancer is to fight back against it.

The best way to defeat a narc is to see them as the jokes they are.

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