Are you tired of being treated like an accessory? Are you sick of being used for someone else’s gain? Then congratulations, my friend, you might be in a relationship with a narcissist!
But don’t worry; you’re not alone. Like a handbag, you’re being carried around by someone who only cares about your image and status.
Why Being in a Relationship with a Narcissist is Like Being a Handbag
Here are a few reasons why a relationship with a narcissist is like being a handbag.
1 – You’re always on display
Just like a handbag, you’re constantly being shown off to the world. Narcissists love to parade their significant others around, but not because they care about you. They want to prove to everyone how great they are for snagging such a catch.
2 – You’re expected to match their outfit
Just like a handbag, you’re expected to look a sure way to fit in with your narcissistic partner’s style. You better be a fancy leather handbag if they’re wearing a suit.
You better wear a cute backpack if they’re wearing sneakers and jeans. And god forbid you clash with their outfit, you’ll be discarded faster than last season’s handbag.
3 – You’re only useful when they need you
Like a handbag, you’re only there when your narcissistic partner needs you. Need someone to make them look good at a work event? Bring the handbag. Need someone to help them feel better after a bad day? Bring the handbag. But the moment they no longer need you, you’re tossed aside like an old clutch.
4 – You’re expected to carry their weight
Just like a handbag, you’re expected to carry the weight of your narcissistic partner. They’ll dump all their emotional baggage on you and expect you to carry it without complaint. And if you can’t handle it, you’re not a good enough handbag.
5 – You’re replaceable
Just like a handbag, you’re replaceable. If you don’t meet their standards or they find a newer, better handbag, they’ll toss you aside without a second thought. And just like a handbag, they’ll never realize the true value of what they had until it’s gone.
Ultimately, being in a relationship with a narcissist is like being a handbag – you’re being used and manipulated for someone else’s benefit.
It’s important to recognize the signs of narcissistic behavior and to prioritize your own mental health and well-being. Don’t let someone treat you like an accessory, you deserve to be treated with respect and kindness.
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