The best way to heal from your traumatic event with your narcissist is to play, and to be, the victim. Picking yourself up, dusting yourself off, learning from the past are NOT the ways to heal. Being a victim and feeling sorry for yourself offers you so many benefits.
And in this article, I will explain all the wonderful benefits you get from being a victim.
The victim mentality has done so much for so many people.
- Killing self-esteem
- Causing anxiety
- Causing depression
- Boosting insecurities (what did you say about me?)
And so much more.
So if you are thinking about moving on with your ONE LIFE. If you are thinking about becoming STRONGER. And if you are thinking about becoming your best version that you can possibly be.
That is a foolish goal. And only stupid, ignorant, snobbish, selfish, self-absorbed, arrogant, ignoble, dishonest, and lying scum try to become their best versions of themselves.
The audacity to say to yourself “THIS IS MY LIFE and I WILL BECOME THE BEST THAT I CAN BE” is so snobbish.
The best thing to do is to have people feel sorry for you and to just give you stuff.
That is a life that any of us can look back at and smile with pride and dignity.
By having other people do for us.
Much like a narcissist would.
We are different.
We are just using people because…you know, we are victims.
God Bless “Victim Mentality”.
Say it with me….”I AM A VICTIM. HEAR ME WHIMPER.”
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Victim Mentality: All The Benefits
Benefit # 1 – Responsibility For Your Own Life Is Gone
Hitting off the list is benefit # 1, “never having to take responsibility for your life”.
How could you?
Being a victim liberates you from having to make hard decisions.
Decisions like, “would you like fries with that?”
This is a hard question to answer. So overwhelmed by our past traumatic events we become childlike.
Those PTSD moments of ” I said wanted McDonalds NOT BURGER KING”, can really shake us up.
This can really make answering questions like “would you like fries with that”, difficult to answer.
Having someone do all the decision-making, and basically, all the thinking for us liberates us from ever having to make a poor decision again.
God Bless Victim Mentality!
Benefit # 2 – Woe Is Me
Screw these stories of people actually OVERCOMING ADVERSITY.
No. You just can’t beat victimhood.
Ahhhh! People’s tears and sorrow for us.
Yes, feel sorry for me. Feel sorry for me. It turns me on.
And if you disagree with me, I will just cry and everyone will be on my side.
Benefit # 3 – Become What The Narcissists Want
Now, this is all just self-explanatory. The best way to get back at the narcissist is to BECOME what the narcissist wanted.
This is all makes sense, right?
Hey, and if it doesn’t.
You are a victim so you NEVER HAVE TO USE LOGIC OR REASONING.
Just use your emotions.
God, isn’t being a victim fun?
Benet # 4- Denigrate Back Into A Child
The most attractive thing a female can ever do is BE DEPENDANT LIKE A CHILD. And the most manliness thing a male can do is to throw a temper tantrum like a two-year-old.
Aren’t these ATTRACTIVE QUALITIES?
I mean females who know what they want, go after what they want and continue to improve themselves, are some of the most unattractive people on this planet.
Who do they think they are to try and be successful? That is so disgusting.
And guys who know how to act cool, calm, and collected are just so…uhhhh.
Nauseates the hell out of me.
Am I right or am I right my fellow victims?
Give me victimhood or give me…DEATH!!!!!!!!
This Is A Spoof
Listen, because there are some people out there who don’t understand sarcasm or satire (which I am trying to hone).
It is NOT okay to be a victim.
When you become a victim you give the narcissists everything they want. They want to make you suffer. They want to make you scared. And they want you to never see what YOU COULD BECOME.
This is why they always remind you of what you were and NEVER WHAT YOU ARE.
We have all been hurt in life. Pain doesn’t discriminate.
Life is not fair.
But as Oscar Wilde once said, “We are all in the gutter, but some of us are looking at the star“.
Instead of complaining about what they did, think about what you can do to improve your life.
We get one go at this thing called life.
Don’t waste it.
Become your greatest version.
Because when you are on your death bed and take your last breath I can bet you, that you will not look back with a fondness for playing a victim.
But you will look back with pride by seeing how you overcame the hard times.
Stop being a victim and become your own hero.
No Shame In Therapy
Narcissistic people can do a wonder on someone’s mind and psychology.
In fact, I wrote an article called “10+ Mental Illnesses Caused By Staying With A Narcissists“.
The narcissists and their legion of fools can slowly drive you insane. And sometimes the best help you can ever receive is from a stranger.
When everyone around you is trying to convince you that YOU are the bad person, sometimes an objective view of you from someone you don’t know maybe what saves you from drowning in the sea of insanity the narc and their legion of fools try and drown you in.
Therapy can help heal in ways that reading blogs, listening to videos, and talking with other WARRIORS (we are not survivors, we are warriors) can ever do.
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Narcs have a legion of fools behind them to hurt you, I think it would be a good thing to build your own army of warriors and allies to help stand by your side.