Narcissist Cause Drama Frantically To Make Sure They Still Have Control
I often call narcissist, “Kidults“.
And for those who think namecalling is childish…STOP!
Kidults means they are kids in adult bodies.
And I ask you, “is the narcissist in your life behaving like an adult?”
Throwing a temper tantrum, stomping around, yelling, screaming and creating havoc are all signs of kidult.
These are the same thing that toddlers to 8-year-old kids do.
Narcissists create drama for attention. Much like an 8-year old who draws on the wall or kicks holes in the wall to get attention, so too does a narc creating drama…just for attention.
“Look at me. Look at me. Pay attention to MEEEEEEEEE.”
These people never learn how to regulate their emotions and as a result, they NEED others to regulate their emotions for them.
And this is why I say to “NOT GIVE THEM REASSURANCE”.