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The Narcissist Will Never Stop Trying To Hurt You


The Narcissist Will Never Stop Trying To Hurt You

Hurting a narcissist requires minimal effort.

An uninterested “hello” in the morning, can make them think you are better than them. Wearing a dress that brings out your figure means you are trying to outshine them.

Reading a book by yourself without harming anyone, can make them think you are smarter than them.

Hell, just walking down the street, not knowing them, and walking pass them can make them feel like you are ignoring them.

These people are LOSERS, and if they ever get the chance to one-up you or find a weakness to exploit you, they will keep attacking it and using it to hurt you.

And they will NEVER STOP!

The narcissist that has come wallowing into your life is HELLBENT on tearing you down.

And you MUST BE HELLBENT ON BUILDING YOURSELF UP.

The Narcissist Will Never Stop Trying To Hurt You

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As Superman says, “It’s a never-ending battle.”

Narcissists are trolls, parasitesLOSERS of the highest echelon of loser-ship!

Once they have set their reptilian gaze on us, that is it…game over.

You are the primary target and thought in their small primitive brains.

Before I continue, I am not denigrating the narcissist (as they do that themselves), but this is a truth.

Many of these people operate out of their reptilian brains.

This is why they cannot feel empathy because empathy is located in the Limbic brain, a brain higher, and more EVOLVED than the reptilian brain.

These people have a scarcity mindset.

If you are happy, they can’t be happy.

If you have a lover, they can’t have a lover. Despite there literally being hundreds to thousands of potential partners out there!!!! SMH!

Women know this to be true.

A guy can look at a girl in a relationship and say, “I need a girl like that.

A girl can look at a guy in a relationship and say, “I NEED HIM.

With narcissistic people, they have this illogical thinking that everything in life is scarce.

Attention is scarce — that is why some are attention hogs!

“What are you talking about? Is it me? Are you talking about me? Is it me?”

They believe success is scarce.

“I have to be a shark and tear down everyone’s business; otherwise, I won’t be successful.”

And they believe happiness is the rarest thing on earth.

This is why they have such an intense hatred for people who are in happy, loving relationships and are living a happy and successful life.

They are LOSERS!

And they make it their mission to destroy everything you have.

You Have To Be Just As Diligent As Them

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You have to be just as diligent as they are in keeping the life that YOU WANT.

They will never stop trying to hurt you and tear you down.

They will never stop bringing up how they were able to one-up you. 

And they will never stop at trying to humiliate you.

They do all these things because they see you as better than them — and it hurts them.

By simply focusing on your life and keep on improving who you are as a person, you do more harm to them than you ever would, had you attacked them or responded to their antics.

I know it can be challenging, but believe me, for people who feel like they are nothing, getting somebody’s attention (which is us) that makes their day.

By not acknowledging them, you reaffirm to them everything they try and hide…which is that they are nothing.

Focus on you and NEVER GIVE UP ON IMPROVING YOURSELF.

That is the greatest revenge.

Struggling With C-PTSD?

I often say that living with a narcissist is like living in a war zone! This comparison may very well seem hyperbolic, but research has shown that living around narcissists can have the same effects on a person’s mind as people living in a war zone!

I wrote an article describing the “10+ Mental Illnesses Caused By Staying With Narcissists“.

These people are monsters, plain and simple.

If you are struggling with emotional flashbacks, dealing with mental and emotional battles that NO ONE but yourself seems to see and feel, and if you find it hard to get out of bed every day, you may be dealing with C-PTSD.

As great as support groups may be, or as profound as articles can be, they are no substitute for professional help. 

Sometimes the best way to heal and move forward is with therapy.

Speaking with someone and getting the hurt off your chest is a great way to unload.

Online Therapy is a site that offers visitors the chance to speak with professional therapists who will be able to help you get through your emotional and psychological battles.

If you sign up with my link, you can get 20% off your first month’s session.

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I call myself the Rational Humorist. Narcs to me are cancer to humanity. The only way to beat cancer is to fight back against it.

The best way to defeat a narc is to see them as the jokes they are.

(2) Comments

  1. I seriously needed to read this, damn good job!

    1. Glad to help bro!

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