The Covert Narcissistic Insecure Male: Who They Are & How To Beat Them
Males that feel emasculated by MEN they perceive better than them, will take out their frustration on WOMEN whom they feel will never like them, who may never love them, or who may leave them.
These types of guys, and there are LEGIONS of them, are LOSERS. And I say this unapologetically.
The covert narcissistic insecure male is one of the most passive-aggressive people you will come across.
And before you think I am on this “Men are Dogs,” NONSENSE…NO, I AM NOT.
And HECK NO…MEN ARE NOT DOGS.
It’s men who do the most dangerous jobs on this planet. It is men that fight in wars to bring freedom. And it is MEN that protects the weak and oppressed.
Now…women are just as brave as MEN. I am not suggesting bravery is a MAN’S attribute…because it is not.
But there is a type of BEAUTY and a sense of spirit that is unique in MASCULINITY, to which only MEN can ever master.
Toxic masculinity is a trait that can be attributed to the insecure covert narcissistic male.
Because they lack the overall confidence that MEN have they will then seek to try and be superior to these MEN by trying to be smarter than them.
But smart, in this case, does not always mean to be intelligent. It can be cunning and manipulative.
They have no qualms in lying and cheating to get ahead in life because, to them, life has cheated them.
In their inferior way of thinking and perceiving themselves, they think if they were taller, stronger, bigger (use your imagination here), that life would be so much better for them.
They feel like they can never measure up, and as a result, these people will do some of the nastiest things you can think of.
Because they cannot scale to the heights that other men have climbed, they will then, to protect their fragile egos, TEAR DOWN others around them.
“I can’t get to the level you are at, but I can sure as heck can bring you down to my level. Now we will be…EQUAL.”
They are such losers.
They hate women because they know that if they were in a relationship with them that maybe the woman wouldn’t be impressed with them and would leave them.
And worst, they LOATHE a woman who has confidence. Who radiates maturity, confidence, and self-love.
To them, nothing hurts their fragile little egos more than but to see a woman who loves herself.
And to see a man who achieves so much in life, despite the uphill battles they must climb, is CRUSHING TO THEM.
Our success and happiness in life is a slap in the face to them. They are forced to then reflect on themselves, which they do not want to do.
To these LOSERS, this is the ultimate smack in the face to see others are happy and achieving their dreams while they live a nightmare JUST BEING THEM.
In this article, I will explain the antics of these lesser males and explain how you can defeat them.
The Covert Narcissistic Insecure Male: Who They Are & How To Beat Them
The Covert Narcissistic Insecure Male
Now, to be fair, covert narcissism is not only relegated to males, as females can also be a covert narcissist. And I dare say, I could argue that there are more covert narc females than males.
The movie “Mean Girls“ indeed, shows the inner world of how covert narcissistic females behave.
What I find HILARIOUS and somewhat off-putting is how the mindset of covert narcissistic insecure males are not at all dissimilar to the mentality you saw in the movie “Mean Girls.”
Most of these covert narcissistic males behave like effeminate males.
And I am NOT suggesting that — to be a gay man or effeminate males is wrong. Because to be honest…I genuinely don’t give a crap about a person’s sexual orientation.
I honestly believe people are BORN this way. You can’t make someone gay.
What I am saying is that insecure covert narcissistic males are NEFARIOUS.
These are the guys who will befriend another guy to find weaknesses to tear him down. These are the guys who will lurk in the shadows trying to cast doubt on others they believe better than them.
They are the guys who cheat on the girls and then beg her to take him back.
These are the guys who have their flying monkeys do there bidding for them and then throw them under the bus if they feel like they will get in trouble.
These guys have no sense of honor or dignity.
They will shift blame to others in a heartbeat. And when they get power, they greatly misuse it, much like the leaders of the CCP (Chinese Communist Party).
Tell me…tell me, these leaders aren’t WEAK.
And this is not a knock at CHINESE PEOPLE. This is a knock at the ruling party there.
The leader XI Jinping banned Whinnie The Pooh because people compared him to it.
That is WEAK to care what others think of you.
Read how they are paying politicians to say good things about them in the U.S because of the virus they LIED, HID, and then tried to CHANGE THE NARRATIVE ABOUT, is causing upset with the people of the West.
Communism is a crappy inhumane political ideology. That’s why it ALWAYS FAILS.
Insecure Effeminate Covert Narcissistic Males fight and play dirty. They have no honor, and they hate people who have courage and dignity.
To them, everything is image and NOT character.
So How Do You Defeat People Like This
There are many ways to defeat these losers.
If you are a MAN, know you will be the overall thought in their minds. Like a high school girl who has a crush on her high school teacher, so too will these effeminate narcissistic males think of a MAN they secretly fear.
Know that they will do everything they can to make your dreams never come true.
They love to act as Gatekeepers.
As a MAN, to defeat these losers, YOU MUST WALK YOUR OWN PATH.
What this does is show the covert narcissistic effeminate male that they have NO CONTROL OVER YOUR LIFE.
And this crushes them.
They need to feel powerful over you. And the only way they can do that is by having control over your destination/ your path.
But by walking off that path they are on and creating your own path, you show them how irrelevant they really are.
Nothing makes women more beautiful than a smile. Makeup only supplements your beauty.
A woman that smiles, despite the harm a covert narc put her through FRUSTRATES them to no end.
Their whole purpose (the covert narc male) is to make you feel as if you are nothing.
And they do this because they feel like they are nothing.
If they can take away your happiness, your joy, your smile, your radiance, your warmth, your light, and make you devoid of feelings, like they are, then they feel like they achieved something.
By simply smiling about the stuff they put you through and moving forward with your life, AS IF THEY NEVER EXISTED, CRUSHES THEM.
And it crushes thems because it shows that despite ALL THE NEGATIVE STUFF THEY PUT YOU THROUGH…it wasn’t enough.
And it wasn’t enough because they are not enough.
By you seeking revenge, what you reveal to these losers is this…
THEY GOT TO YOU. THEY BROKE YOU. AND THEY HAVE ENTERED YOUR MIND.
By moving forward and smiling while doing so, you hurt them on a massive level.
They already feel like they are nothing, and by your moving forward with your life, you only reaffirm to them they are nothing.
Listen I Am Not Bashing Men
I am a MAN. I know many great MEN who do good things for their family, friends, and strangers.
Sadly, society does treat men like we are the problem. Very few cases of men who have to put up with narc wives or girlfriends are rarely ever told.
Few people know how these narc females drive their husband or boyfriend to commit sui*ide.
Few people know how tough it is for guys to express their feelings because they will be viewed as soft or weak.
Which is absurd.
I let my guys cry on my shpulder when thye need to and i think no less of them.
And that takes strength to show your vulnerability.
Very few people know how bias the legal system is against men when it regards custody battles.
It is tough for MEN.
And I dare say that it is because of covert narc effeminate males who get powers of authority.
They were picked on, had the girl they liked taken by another guy, when they NEVER even asked the girl out, or they just have a great level of self-hatred for themselves.
Whatever the reason, these losers occupy many positions of power.
Men, just like women, truly are a rarity.
And this should not be a bad thing.
If you are looking for a relationship, your partner should be rare.
That is what makes them so special.
Narcs are far more prominent in society then we are led to believe.
This shouldn’t be a bad thing, though. It just reveals to you and us that we are unique, special, and a rarity.
This is why we are so hated.
While the littlest bit of pressure can crack or destroy glass.
Deal with the unjust hatred of covert narcs and focus on you and your dreams and goals.
Succeed despite their nonsense against you, and you simultaneously make yourself happy and defeat the covert narcissistic effeminate male.
Struggling With C-PTSD?
I often say that living with a narcissist is like living in a war zone! This comparison may very well seem hyperbolic, but research has shown that living around narcissists can have the same effects on a person’s mind as people living in a war zone!
I wrote an article describing the “10+ Mental Illnesses Caused By Staying With Narcissists“.
These people are monsters, plain and simple.
If you are struggling with emotional flashbacks, dealing with mental and emotional battles that NO ONE but yourself seems to see and feel, and if you find it hard to get out of bed every day, you may be dealing with C-PTSD.
As great as support groups may be, or as profound as articles can be, they are no substitute for professional help.
Sometimes the best way to heal and move forward is with therapy.
Speaking with someone and getting the hurt off your chest is a great way to unload.
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