There you are, in a shopping center, when all of a sudden, your little guy or gal throws a temper tantrum. They start to yell, scream, pout, stomp around and put on a show. And you are stuck feeling embarrassed and confused.
For many of us who have been around narcissists, we oftentimes question ourselves. Did we say something wrong? Did we do something wrong? Why are they so angry? How did this happy picnic all of a sudden turn into a nightmare in hell? Who is to blame?
If TV and Hollywood have taught us anything, it is this. TRUE LOVE CONQUERS ALL. Narcissistic people can change and be committed to their victims…um, lovers. All they need is a good leash to keep us forever linked in their hands. Um…I mean a good reason to stay. So in this article, I will explain how you can make your narcissist stay committed to you.
The narcissists that come into our lives are the Alpha and the Omega. They are the beginning and the end. There is no such thing as life after leaving a narcissist. Because without them…we are nothing and there is nothing. So if you are hoping for a better life (which is a bit perplexing as we all know there is no greater life that one can have then but to be with a narcissist) just stop it.
All The Reasons You Should Stay With Your Narcissist
Have you been asking yourself, after the separation from the narcissists or while being with the narcissist, “am I the narcissists”? Well, if you defend yourself against a narcissist you are the narcissist. And in this article, I will explain how egotistical it is to defend yourself from unjust attacks.
So you guys separated for the umpteenth time and you feel like you want to move on. But then all of a sudden you get a text message from them asking, “Hey, how you doin’ ;)”. Now you are questioning if you can really stay separated. Well, if you are thinking about them coming back in your life…Let Your Narcissist Move Right Back In With You.
Resentment is such a wonderful feeling; isn’t it? Waking up with a headache. Having dreams about what you wish you could do to the narcissist. Taking out your anger on the kids and close relatives. All of these amazing benefits are all thanks because you keep on resenting your narcissist.
So you just went No Contact with your narcissists? And instead of moving on with your life and finding someone better; you don’t want to. You want to keep thinking about them. So, do this to keep thinking about your narcissists. Because why in the world should you ever think you can have a life outside of them?
Ah! Love. There is nothing quite like it. Love can make us feel like we are flying and it can heal in so many ways. And this is especially true for the narcissist. Despite them lacking empathy (which is a prerequisite feeling one needs to…LOVE) they can still love us. Because your love can change the narcissist.