Narcissists treat their new supply SO GOOD after discarding us or separating from us because they are doing their very best to groom the hell out of the new supply.
They want to instill in the new supply — ”This is what life can always be like.”
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This Is Why The Narcissist Treats The New Supply So Much Better Than You
So what they will do, taking notes from the previous relationship with us, is to see how much longer it will take for them to groom their supply to keep them in their lives.
It is all about instilling in the new supply’s mind that they (the narcissist) are such a catch. They want the new supply to think that they are so lucky to have the narcissist in their life.
It can be excruciating for females because if the girl is younger than you, it crushes you on an emotional level.
But it is also sad because her younger mind may not have any clue of what she is getting into, and you may want to reach out and tell her not to fall for the guy — but because he may have already told her about you if you do go and try and convince her you will seem like a crazy jealous ex.
It can be very difficult to deal with — and this segways into the next reason why the narcissist treats the new supply so well!
Another reason they treat their new supply so much better is that they KNOW YOU ARE WATCHING!
And this is something YOU HAVE TO STOP!
You gain absolutely NOTHING…NOTHING from watching their lives together. The only thing you get is resentment, hurt, pain, and a constant need to get revenge.
You will slowly deteriorate and do the job of the narcissist for them.
I know it is easier said than done, but it is so important to MOVE ON!
These people are so EVIL — and they get JOY…MASSIVE JOY when you suffer and suffer BECAUSE OF THEM!
They are nutjobs; the only way to win is to live happily without them in it!
Struggling With C-PTSD?
I often say that living with a narcissist is like living in a war zone! This comparison may very well seem hyperbolic, but research has shown that living around narcissists can have the same effects on a person’s mind as people living in a war zone!
I wrote an article describing the “10+ Mental Illnesses Caused By Staying With Narcissists“.
These people are monsters, plain and simple.
If you are struggling with emotional flashbacks, dealing with mental and emotional battles that NO ONE but yourself seems to see and feel, and if you find it hard to get out of bed every day, you may be dealing with C-PTSD.
As great as support groups may be, or as profound as articles can be, they are no substitute for professional help.
Sometimes the best way to heal and move forward is with therapy.
Speaking with someone and getting the hurt off your chest is a great way to unload.
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