10 Signs Your Narcissists Really Loves You: Dealing With A Narcissistic Relationship

10 Signs Your Narcissists Really Loves You: Dealing With A Narcissistic Relationship

Signs Your Narcissists Really Loves You

Hey! All lovers have quarrels, right? If you have been questioning your narcissist love, you are an “ungrateful” “*&*^%!

So spoiled you are for not putting up with the insanity of the narcissist and worse of you to dare question their love for you.

In this article, I give you 10 Signs Your Narcissists Really Loves You! It’s just like in the movies.

But what about all these signs I see“, I hear you asking.

Allow me to explain the narcissist’s true reasoning, and why, even with the red flags you CLEARLY see, that the narcissist still means good. But just in their own way.

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10 Signs Your Narcissists Really Loves You: Dealing With A Narcissistic Relationship

Signs Your Narcissists Really Loves You

1 – “Lying?” No! They Just Don’t Want To Hurt Your Feelings

Hey! Listen! Narcissists are very insecure people. They lie not to try and manipulate you and use you to their whims. No. They lie because they are scared they are going to lose you.

Oh! How romanticccccccccccccccccccccccc!

You just mean so much to them.

That is why they lie and think you are a fool. I mean, they think you are so precious.

Just understand that in REAL LOVING RELATIONSHIPS, partners lie to one another.

I mean, even though nearly 50% of marriage fails due to lies and scheming, know that YOU can be part of the 50% that stay together.

I mean, people stay together because they just know how to lie so well.

NOT BECAUSE PARTNERS ARE...Scoff…honest with each other.

What will honesty get you?



Just a long loving, healthy relationship, that’s all.

So next time they lie to you, graciously accept their lies. Even when it is life-threatening information, you MAY need to survive. They lie to you because they love you.

Remember that next time you get news from the doctor about a test report.

2 – “Cheating?” No…No…They Are Practicing New Moves For You

Even if you caught them in the act of engaging in sexual activities with someone else, know they still love. The reason, because THERE IS ALWAYS A REASON, the cheated on you was not to make you a fool.

No. No.

It was to learn new moves so they can engage with you.

That is why they were sneaking around all the time.

They don’t want to spoil their BIG PRIZE FOR YOU.

Remember this; it isn’t a healthy relationship without lies, cheating, and doubting.

These are three pillars of foundations for any successful relationship.

Signs Your Narcissists Really Loves You

Hey! Don’t get the act of “borrowing money without consent as stealing.

The narcissist was not stealing from you.

They can’t steal from something (not someone) they own.

And because we are their loving “property,” they can take what they want without our consent.



How adorable to think we even come close to being individualistic humans with our autonomy.



4 – “Setting You Up For Failure?” No. They Need To Cripple You So You Don’t Leave


They will sabotage us to fail at something we have been working so hard for.

Not because they don’t want us to succeed. But because they are scared, we will leave them once we become great.

They have to damage us and cripple us so we can’t get too far from them.

They want us to NEED THEM.

God! How romantic is this?

It is so…Oh my god…so ROMANTIC.

You studied three months for this test only to have them argue or break up with you RIGHT BEFORE THE TEST.

God, they are such Casanovas and Queen Sheba(s).

5 – “Not Feeding Your Pet?” No. Your Pet Was Getting Fat

Signs Your Narcissists Really Loves You

Listen! They didn’t mean to starve your pet. And they didn’t mean to drown the kittens [Hey, breaking tone for a second get your PUPPIES and KITTENS AWAY FROM THESE NUTJOBS…NARCISSISTS WILL KILL THEM TO GET AT YOU. NARCISSISTS ARE SOME CRAZY SICK SOBs].

They just were scared that these pets would take your love from them.

They saw the puppies and kittens plotting in the kitchen on how to get rid of them. The puppies and kittens had a board, diagrams, and excel sheets showing what they need to do to get rid of them.

So don’t you see, they had to starve your pets.

It was either them or the pets.

They did this because they love you.

Don’t you see?

10 Signs Your Narcissists Really Loves You: Dealing With A Narcissistic Relationship

6 – “Giving You Misinformation?” No. You Just Heard Them Wrong

So you were supposed to receive a phone call from your doctor for an important test result. Your loving, caring narcissist receives the call by going looking through your phone without permission (As if they need permission, right?).

They get the message and give you the wrong details.

Your narcissist isn’t lying to you. They are just holding information form you, and that’s not bad.

7 – “Stepping Over Boundaries?” No. They Just Want To Invade…Um…Be Close To You

Never has then been a healthy relationship with boundaries.

Boundaries are like walls.

And walls don’t only protect people from neighboring countries who may have ill intent, but they keep people out.

And how can you want to keep your lover out of your life?

That is mean.

Let narcissist enter in your life and let them tear down your boundaries or walk past your boundaries.

Don’t you see?

“Mr./Mrs. Empath TEAR DOWN THAT WALL!”

Let them come strolling right past your boundaries.


And don’t you DARE pass by their boundaries.

8 – “A Black Eye?” No. No. This Is Just A Love Tap: Signs Your Narcissists Really Loves You

Signs Your Narcissists Really Loves You

That black eye you received and that headache you have gained as a result of the attack…umm…the hard love tap they gave you is just them being TOO PLAYFUL.

There s no need to call the cops or tell your friends or family about it.

Just cover that shiner…uh…precious little gift of their up with some sunshades.

9 – “Distancing Your From Family?” No. They Just Want To Be Your Everything…Like In The Movies

Why need a family when you have a narcissist?

They are our all and everything.

How romantic is this?

And the best part about this is when they kick you out you have NO ONE to go to.

And you will be forced to crawl back to them. Nothing turns these people on more than seeing people grovel over them.

Willful submission,” they likey likey.

10 – “Drive You Insane?” We All Go A Little Mad In Love Sometimes, Right?

We all go a bit insane when it comes to love.

Love makes us crazy.

The assertion that loves makes you better is stupid.

Tell me what relationship that has two loving partners have ever given to society?


Love does not uplift.

It drives people batshit insane.

Pick Up “Narcissistic Men and the Women Who Love Them: How to break free from abuse”

This Is A Spoof: Signs Your Narcissists Really Loves You

Just in case you didn’t catch it, this is a spoof. Narcissists cannot and do not love anyone. Hell, many of them do not even love themselves.

Stop seeking these trolls love and admiration because it really isn’t worth anything.

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Narcissistic people can do a wonder on someone’s mind and psychology. In fact, I wrote an article called “10+ Mental Illnesses Caused By Staying With A Narcissists“.

The narcissists and their legion of fools can slowly drive you insane. And sometimes the best help you can ever receive is from a stranger. 

When everyone around you is trying to convince you that YOU are the bad person, sometimes an objective view of you from someone you don’t know maybe what saves you from drowning in the sea of insanity the narc and their legion of fools try and drown you in. 

Therapy can help heal in ways that reading blogs, listening to videos, and talking with other WARRIORS (we are not survivors, we are warriors) can ever do. 

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Narcs have a legion of fools behind them to hurt you, I think it would be a good thing to build your own army of warriors and allies to help stand by your side. 

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