In this article, I will be going over the 7 Signs Of A Narcissistic Woman that you should be on the lookout for. Once they sink their clutches into you, it can be challenging moving on and letting go.
This is a direct follow up to a previous article I did title, “15 Signs Of A Narcissistic Male“.
Narcissistic males and females are some of the worse people to be around. There is no reasoning with them. There is no logic with them. And there is rarely, if ever, any type of reconciliation with them.
They seem to thrive off this idea of keeping a wound open; I guess so that that pain will never stop!
If you have noticed any of these signs with a male narcissist then you should really consider leaving; as they will only destroy your life.
And this is especially true with the narcissistic female.
Narcissists work day in and day out to try and destroy someone so they (the victim) will always ruminate about them.
Being thought about, being hated, and being the bane of other existence is what brings these people joy!
By going no contact you will be able to free yourself from their clutches and the only person they will have to destroy…is themselves.
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How To Spot These 7 Signs Of A Narcissistic Woman & How To Avoid Her
(Oh-oh, here she comes)
Watch out boy
She’ll chew you up
(Oh-oh, here she comes)
She’s a maneater
Hall & Oats – Maneater ~ Signs Of A Narcissistic Woman
# 1 – Every Conversation Revolves Around Her ~ Signs Of A Narcissistic Woman
Much like the narcissistic male, narc females love to talk about themselves.
They love to compare themselves with other females. To them, they are the pillar of perfection.
Narcissistic women who are attractive will also be incredibly cruel and irrational to other females around them.
To the point that many of their actions seem very childish (they can behave like kidults).
Their beauty is what strength is to men!
# 2 – She Constantly Cancels Plans
Hey, sometimes plans change. And I am not arguing against that. Sometimes life just gets in the way and it is very little we can do about that.
But with narcissistic females, plans change ALL THE TIME. You can schedule a nice and fancy night out at a restaurant and she will cancel on you at the last moment.
And to her…it’s no biggie.
It is not a big deal to her because your emotions do not really matter.
You should be happy to have her in your life.
Because any guy would be happy to have her.
This is their train of thought.
# 3 – Telling Her “No” Sends Her Into A Fury
If your chick dives into a maelstrom of insanity because you said “NO” to her, you are dealing with a narcissist or with a mentally ill person.
People who cannot deal with hearing the word “No” are emotionally unstable and mentally childish.
Being told “no” to a normal person isn’t an attack or death sentence. But to a narcissistic person that is an attack against them.
Narcissistic women (and people in general) are immature kidults; they expect the world to bend to their back and call!
# 4 – She Flirts With People She Doesn’t Like ~ Telltale Signs Of A Narcissistic Female
“I can’t stand this person”
(Five Seconds Later.)
“Hey so-n-so. You are looking SOOOO GOOD.”
This comic strip best illustrates this mindset.
# 5 – She Talks Bad About Everyone
This is a hallmark trait of narcissistic people in general but is very prominent in feminine psychology.
She always has something negative to say about people. Nothing is ever good with her. She can take compliments but never give them out.
# 6 – She Never Accepts Blame
It is never her fault. It is always someone else’s fault.
# 7 – Her Phone Is Full Of Selfies ~ Signs Of A Narcissistic Woman
It’s all about HERRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR!
Her phone will be packed full of selfie images. Screw having you n her phone.
It’s all about her; if you didn’t know.
Familiarize Yourself With These Signs
Understand that narcissistic women and men are pretty much becoming the norm in society. In understanding the many signs to look out for you can better defend and protect yourself from these people.
There is NO compromising with these people or reconciling with them. The best thing to ALWAYS DO is to go NO CONTACT.
That is the best revenge you can ever have against them…coupled with living a happy and successful life.
How Do You Defeat These People?
The best way to handle these people/ or to beat these people is to simply…WALK AWAY!
It is important to know that these people are energy vampires. They feed off of others’ energy!
Give them NOTHING to feed on!
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Narcissistic people can do a wonder on someone’s mind and psychology. In fact, I wrote an article called “10+ Mental Illnesses Caused By Staying With A Narcissists“.
The narcissists and their legion of fools can slowly drive you insane. And sometimes the best help you can ever receive is from a stranger.
When everyone around you is trying to convince you that YOU are the bad person, sometimes an objective view of you from someone you don’t know maybe what saves you from drowning in the sea of insanity the narc and their legion of fools try and drown you in.
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