Dare To Have The Temerity To Not Give A Flip What The Narcissist Think
There is happiness that can be found in not giving a flip. A supreme level of happiness that comes when you just stop giving a flip.
A happiness like no other that you can ever know or experience, once you start to gain the temerity, the unapologetic temerity, of NOT GIVING A F*CK what others say, what others do, what others think, and how others FEEL ABOUT YOU.
Narcissistic people, and their legion of fools, the mindless apian-brained dolts they are, feed on holding people in the prison of opinions.
They feed on making people feel shame, guilt, bad, not good enough, and LESS THAN!
These fools of no character, seek to damage, destroy, and eliminate anything and everything that does not bask in the garbage bin cesspool alley known as mediocrity.
To dare to try — and not trying very hard — is the greatest insult to a person, a group, a people who would otherwise like that everyone becomes as worthless, uncultured, uncivilized, uninteresting, and UNIMPORTANT as they are.
I know it can be difficult to NOT GIVE A FLIP what others say about you. It’s in our programming to take offense at insults and gossip.
But like I always say, to be an Empath is a step up in the evolutionary chain.
And if you don’t believe in evolution, then just look at flying monkeys; they are the missing link in our evolution.
Fools of the highest order and PROUD of their stupidity and foolishness.
My definition of them is not a pantomimic statement against these trolls and their loser master narcs — but a truth to help you see that they are not worth caring about. Their thoughts are not even their own; flying monkeys or narcs.
Dare To Have The Temerity To Not Give A Flip What The Narcissist Think: 4 Things You Can Do
1 – I Am…DYING…And So Are You ~ Don’t Give A Crap
Now, right off the bat, the thing that keeps me from falling off the very thin, slippery slope of sanity and from falling straight into the dark, cold, endless abyss of insanity with the narc, flying monkeys, and WORLD…is this one truth…
I AM DYING!
I have a tattoo on my inner forearm of a grim reaper and this saying “Memento Mori”.
This is Latin for “Remember That You Are Going To Die”.
Just knowing that I have only but so many tomorrows and that death can come a knocking at any time, any day, any hour, under any circumstance — gives me the impetus to stop beating myself up over the past.
It gives me the strength to live my ONE LIFE the best way that I can and to do so WHILE I CAN.
There are no redos with this life and we must play it the best way we can.
We don’t lose…we learn! Now level up!
2 – On The List Of Things Important In My Life, Where Should They Place? ~ Don’t Give A Crap
This is a new personal favorite of mines that I have come up with on my own!
Narcs will NEVER let you live down how they made you look stupid, how they embarrassed you, and how they one-upped you.
To these losers making you feel like a loser makes them feel like a winner!
Heaven, they are such losers and their pet flying monkeys — The Bobo Clowns they are — also take glee in seeing their master narc remind you/us of how they one-upped us.
Now, what I do when a narc reminds me of anything they feel they did better than me (through their flying fool monkeys) is…
Tilt my head slightly to the right and say hmmm…Allow me to let you know what goes on in my life and world. I spout ten achievements and things I am doing (of course these are not the best things I do, gotta keep those secrets) and currently focused on.
I then ask them, where in my schedule should I add to care what they think about me.
Their BLANK FLOURIDE FOOLISH STARE never gets old!
Now, what this does is shows them that:
- Life has gotten better after leaving them and I have moved on
- Their feelings towards me have not changed my life for the worst
- It reveals that their achievement over me was a highlight in their life — but not in mines. It wasn’t even a second thought! D*MNNNNNNNNNNNNN! The shade. The shade. Not even god will be able to find these losers with this shade we cast on them!
To these small minds, this is a huge insult. They want a reaction and a calm, accomplished, and stoic response is kryptonite to these idiots.
3 – Remember That People Are Out To Hurt You With Words…Not Caring Is The Biggest Middle Finger In The Face ~ Don’t Give A Crap
To piggyback off of my last entry — these fools look for an emotional response. By not caring and keeping your cool, calm, and collection you DEPRIVE these emotional vampires of energy.
4 – Continue To Educate Yourself: Rationality Can Do Wonders For Your Thick Skin
I love to read…and I specifically love to read philosophy. I have recently come into the philosophy of Objectivism (which yes, for those of you who are familiar with it and Ayn Rand — I have come to really love and appreciate her philosophy and books— NOBODY OWES YOU ANYTHING BUT YOURSELF)!
Philosophies, and trying to find a guide for how you should live your life and overcome hard times, is easier once you start to educate yourself!
The more you know, the better you can do in managing your emotions.
There is a massive power in education!
Stop caring what apian-minded fools say because these fools don’t even think, they just act and respond — like animals.
Struggling With C-PTSD?
I often say that living with a narcissist is like living in a war zone! This comparison may very well seem hyperbolic, but research has shown that living around narcissists can have the same effects on a person’s mind as people living in a war zone!
I wrote an article describing the “10+ Mental Illnesses Caused By Staying With Narcissists“.
These people are monsters, plain and simple.
If you are struggling with emotional flashbacks, dealing with mental and emotional battles that NO ONE but yourself seems to see and feel, and if you find it hard to get out of bed every day, you may be dealing with C-PTSD.
As great as support groups may be, or as profound as articles can be, they are no substitute for professional help.
Sometimes the best way to heal and move forward is with therapy.
Speaking with someone and getting the hurt off your chest is a great way to unload.
Online Therapy is a site that offers visitors the chance to speak with professional therapists who will be able to help you get through your emotional and psychological battles.
If you sign up with my link, you can get 20% off your first month’s session.