Not All Narcissists Have A Mental Disorder: Many Are Just Jack@sses
If I have learned anything about narcissists, it is this…THEY HATE TAKING RESPONSIBILITY FOR THEIR ACTIONS.
These people are kidults. They have no emotional regulation.
Entertaining the idea of “being accountable for your action” is a huge turn off for them.
If they can place their misdeeds on others, they will do it.
“Bob messed up my message to you; I never said that.”
“Maxine probably misheard what I said.”
“You are just not seeing things correctly.”
“It was probably that cat that took your car keys and drove it into the tree. It wasn’t me. Stupid cat. We need to get rid of it.”
Narcs are profoundly scared of taking responsibility for their actions.
And when they have NO ONE to blame for their misdeed and immature antics towards people, they will blame it on…”I have a mental disorder. How can you be SO MEAN and attack a person with a mental disease?“
These people are disgraceful scumbags.
Not all narcs have a mental disorder. Many of these lowlives are nothing more than jack@sses.
Plain and simple.
Not All Narcissist Have A Mental Disorder: Many Are Just Jack@sses
Now allow me to clarify before I continue because there will be plenty of ANGRY Karens venting away, “NPD is a mental disorder!!!“
Yes, NPD is a mental disorder.
I differentiate between the two, and I DO NOT TALK about people with NPD. I talk about these kidult narcissistic people running around here, destroying lives FOR NO REASON.
What I find fascinating is that people with NPD actively seek ways to become a better person. They go out and seek therapy and help.
What narcissistic people do is actively seeking people to take care of all their problems.
Typical Narc: “D*mn if I will grow and be a responsible adult. To hell with that.”
This is what is so disgusting about narcissistic people. They don’t even try and reconcile with the wrongs they do.
They jump on the band of “I have NPD,” when in actuality, they really do not.
Many narcs are using this as an EXCUSE (NPD) to hurt people and NEVER APOLOGIZE FOR IT.
“It wasn’t MY fault.”
“I didn’t mean to.”
These kidults who live in their OWN 70s sitcom show, believe themselves to be the star of their tv sitcom show.
Dennis The Narcissists TV Show
“Awwwwwwww! What a precocious scamp you are at the age of 30+. You lied to me only because you want to keep me in your life. How sweet.”
“You devalue me because you know if I know my worth, I will leave you.
“It all makes sense now, the gaslighting. Thank you. You must care.”
“Awwwwwwwww! You cut all ties from my family and friends. You did that because you want me all to yourself. This is true love.”
Narcissistic People Are Losers With A Mental Stagnation NOT a Mental Disorder
Narcs are losers who have not progressed mentally pass the age of six.
“Why can’t I have what they have? Even though they worked for it, it’s unfair that I don’t have it.”
“Everyone should love me because I am adorable (saying this at the age of 40).”
“I should not have to work for the life I want…it should just be handed to me on a silver plate.”
Narcs are immature losers who have never learned how to grow up.
They are not people with a mental disorder.
They are losers who have never matured.
And now, many of them are using the excuse of “I have a mental disorder.“
NO YOU DO NOT!
You are a jack@ss who has no desire to take responsibility for your action.
It Is Not Your/Our Job To Put Up With Their Nonsense
Narcs will never take responsibility for their action. They will do us wrong and place the blame on everyone they can or anything they can.
WE DO NOT HAVE TO PUT UP WITH THEIR NONSENSE.
They don’t have a mental disorder.
They have a mental stagnation.
And it is not our job to be a parent to a grown@ss male or female.
What do you possibly gain from trying to parentify a person who has been a kid for 30+ years???????
Think about it.
Stop letting these people SHAME you and GUILT you into not putting up with their CHILDNESS.
Not All Narcissists Have A Mental Disorder! Many Are Just Jack@sses, and they need to stop hijacking this disorder for their own purposes.
It is not a disorder that some of these people have. It is a mental stagnation issue they have.
And it is about time that we place them in the ultimate time out.
Struggling With C-PTSD?
I often say that living with a narcissist is like living in a war zone! This comparison may very well seem hyperbolic, but research has shown that living around narcissists can have the same effects on a person’s mind as people living in a war zone!
I wrote an article describing the “10+ Mental Illnesses Caused By Staying With Narcissists“.
These people are monsters, plain and simple.
If you are struggling with emotional flashbacks, dealing with mental and emotional battles that NO ONE but yourself seems to see and feel, and if you find it hard to get out of bed every day, you may be dealing with C-PTSD.
As great as support groups may be, or as profound as articles can be, they are no substitute for professional help.
Sometimes the best way to heal and move forward is with therapy.
Speaking with someone and getting the hurt off your chest is a great way to unload.
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