Narcissists Are Cowards
“Cowards make the best torturers. Cowards understand fear and they can use it.”― Mark Lawrence
Narcissists…are cowards. For those of us who have had the unfortunate experience of living with these people, this may very well be the understatement of the year.
These people will not and CANNOT stand alone. This is why they usually have legions of fools (flying monkeys) beside them to do their beck and call.
They lie, cheat and manipulate because if they could be honest with themselves, they would really say, “Who I am is NOT good enough for you, so to keep you in my life, I will lie to you. I will manipulate you. And I will cheat you. By doing this, I feel superior because I am perceived as being cunning and smart. But in actuality…I am petrified that you will not love me for me. Because I don’t love me for me.“
Narcs are a cowardly breed of people who believe yelling and screaming when they don’t get what they want is powerful.
When in actuality, what this shows about the narc is that they are just kidults masquerading as angry adults.
I want you to think about this for a second. 🧐
Think about how a toddler behaves when they cannot have ice cream for breakfast, or when they have to go brush their teeth.
What do they do when they don’t get WHAT they want? 🤔
They lash out. They yell and scream. And they throw temper tantrums.
This is not at all dissimilar to what kidults narcissists do.
In learning to see the narc for what they really are, which are COWARDS, you can slowly and surely put yourself back together.
These people are NOT BRAVE SCARY MONSTERS.
They are hurt, timid, scared animals that pass themselves off as human beings.
And if you think I am denigrating them by calling them animals.
Allow me to elucidate.
There is much to learn.
Narcissists Are Cowards
Their Hatred For The Greater Man
“Hatred is the coward’s revenge for being intimidated.” ― George Bernard Shaw
By now, you know how hate-filled narcissistic people can be. It is like they are the embodiment of what hatred is.
For narcissistic guys who feel emasculated by other men SIMPLY BY THAT MAN’S PRESENCE, they will do everything they can to tear that man’s image down.
Narc guys are like the characters in the “Mean Girls” movie. They have no levels of testosterone, and as such, they will attack great men from the shadows.
To the cowardice and ignoble narc male they will NOT face a man AS A MAN, they will attack other men through lies, deceit, smear campaigns, and turning others against them.
They do these things, thinking that it will hurt the GREAT MAN, not knowing that GREAT MEN love the independence of being alone. That is where we find our strength; in our solitude.
To them, they cannot fathom standing alone or being strong. So they stand together, and they lead their legions of fools against the great man.
This is something that the COWARDLY CCP government does to the west.
Research the lies and propaganda they are doing in regards to the coronavirus.
They have been blaming America, Italy, and the west for this disease they started. This is classic blameshifting.
But…the Cowardly Narcissistic Males will save their greatest hatred for… women.
Hatred For Women
Effeminate Covert Narcissistic Males have an irrationally insane amount of hatred for women.
Now, before I continue, understand that I make a strong distinction between women and females — as I will be touching on the cowardly narcissistic female briefly.
Women such as Lisa Nichols or J.K Rowling are great examples of what it is to be a woman. To be knocked down by life only to find the strength within themselves to become the women they needed for their children and themselves is INSPIRING.
Watch this clip with Lisa Nichols in it. She will inspire you in ways, I NEVER WILL BE ABLE TO.
Females, who leech off the government, lie about who their “baby daddy” really is, who raise their boys to be “THE MAN OF THE HOUSE” are insufferable.
And I will touch on this shortly.
But to get back to the effeminate covert narc male.
These guys and I have heard them speak, have an intense hatred for women who know their worth.
In their weak, effeminate minds, they know that they can never have a woman like that. They know that if they dated a woman who knows her worth, she wouldn’t give him any time of day.
BECAUSE HE DOESN’T MEASURE UP.
Plain and simple.
These guys detest women, and they seek to destroy the beauty that is in these women.
So when these losers do get lucky, they gaslight the HELL out of these women.
Because as we mentioned earlier, these losers hate who they are, and if the women they are with hate who they are as well, that only reaffirms to them…THEY ARE NOTHING SPECIAL.
And this DESTROYS their egos.
So they make it a mission to gaslight women. They make it a mission to find women who have just left a relationship, and that is when they swoop in, like vultures, to pick up the wounded hearted ladies.
Effeminate Narc covert males are like Hyenas, Vultures, Jackals.
They are scavengers. They pick up the leftovers, or they attack the wounded.
And women who have just left a relationship are wounded emotionally.
And this is exactly what these coward males look for.
Now, HOLD ON…HOLD ON.
If you are still reading this, and if this hit you hard, continue on reading.
The objective of this article is to show you what the narc is, as well as how you can ultimately learn from this and move on.
Their fear is going to give you the courage to move on.
Please keep on reading.
The Cowardly Narc Female
If there is indeed an injustice in society, it is how cowardly narc females get away with SO MUCH.
The legal system, in regards to divorce and custody, is INCREDIBLY biased against men.
These coward ignoble FEMALES, know how to play victim, and it is disgusting.
This is no chauvinistic language.
Women know how cruel they can be. Females know how cruel they can be to other females.
THIS IS A TRUTH! (Watch The “Mean Girl” Movie)
Stealing a guy from another girl. Lying to a guy about being the father of a child. Playing the victim in custody battles and then having a father pay for her lavish lifestyle. Keeping fathers away from their kids.
Raising their girls to hate men so that those girls grow up never having an understanding of the beauty of having a healthy relationship is CRUEL.
Raising their boys to have a hatred for their fathers and subconsciously molding that boy into the type of MAN SHE WANTS is disgusting.
This is DISGUSTING, and it happens SO MUCH.
Cowardly narc females are disgusting.
But here is the thing.
Coward narcs CAN EASILY BE DEFEATED.
And here is how.
Emotional Regulation Is Key: Narcissists Are Cowards
“The cruelty that narcs put you through, is what they fear the most to happen to them.”
NOTE: Listed below are SUGGESTION. It is always best to learn how to think thoroughly for yourself. These stories and examples that I will list below should not be taken to be absolute because there are no absolutes. But they have helped serve me and some of my friends. I hope they can do the same for you.
The smear campaign. Character Assassinations. The gossiping and rumors. The lies, deceit, and depravity. Them giving you the silent treatment. The gaslighting. The ridicule and laughter.
All these things are what they are fearful of.
But the thing that they FEAR THE MOST is…
Listen. I have had the unfortunate, but the NECESSARY experience of having these people enter my life.
And I know for certain that the thing that hurts them the most, the idea that scares them the most, and the thing that keeps them up at night, is someone not caring about them.
These people are like animals. And when I say animals, they are like reptiles. They have primary primitive needs and functions in life.
And what this means is that attention is a NEED FOR THEM.
These people are ADDICTS, and we are their drug.
They need our attention like we need air to breathe.
This is not hyperbole.
These people are INSANE.
So, how can you use this to heal yourself and get back at them?
It is by becoming in control of your emotions.
And this is what you need to do.
If you are going through a custody battle with them for the kids, as a guy, you have to be okay with it for the moment.
I am not saying to GIVE UP or GIVE IN.
Let them win the battle; you are out to win the WAR!
I had a friend, whom his girl would not let him see his kid.
He told her, “my own mother abandoned me. I lost my family as a child if I have to lose it as an adult than so be it.”
She flipped the script and allowed him to see the kid.
This was somewhat reverse psychology but also more.
Remember, these coward females want us to chase after them and think about them.
If you say you will not chase after them and let them separate you from the kids, what this does, it shows them they will NEVER see you again.
And despite the divorce, the idea is to have you hate them and want to hurt them. If you do this, you will still be thinking about them.
And for narc females…this is what they want.
They want to be chased because it makes them feel valuable.
By not chasing them, they will start to behave in a more civilized way.
Now, this may be a gamble, but more than often, these females THINK ABOUT THE GUY, and they think about how to hurt the guy because of them.
Just because they act like they don’t want you in their lives or the kid’s life, doesn’t mean that is so.
They are doing what they think will hurt you.
Once they see you aren’t hurt, and you may be, BUT NEVER SHOW IT, they will stop the games.
They will allow you to see the kid but know it will only be so they can find a way to hurt you even more.
Make sure when you can see your kids tell them and remind them HOW MUCH YOU LOVE THEM.
Remember to tell them it is NOT their fault. Be the hero. Be the father. And be the MAN.
When they grow up, your example will bring you closer to them.
To Defeat The Coward Narc Male: Narcissists Are Cowards
The level of self-hatred that effeminate covert narc males have for themselves is not too dissimilar to high school girls.
Know, how high school girls think and feel about themselves, is how narc males feel about themselves.
The best thing to do when they turn everyone against you is to be okay with it.
If you give in into their insanity and try and defend yourself from these losers, all this shows is that they have control and power over you.
Which makes them happy.
As mentioned before, these guys need to feel powerful.
They cannot stand alone.
If they found a new supply, STOP WATCHING THEM.
If they talk about you and call you a b*tch and wh*re to everyone in town, keep walking with your head held high.
Do not give them the pleasure of destroying you.
I know it easier said than done. But you do yourself no type of good by playing the victim or feeling like a victim.
This is what they want.
Work on you.
I promise that if you work on you, get in shape, become your own boss, move to a different location (I don’t see why to stay and deal with mindless and braindead fools who can’t think for themselves is a good thing), find a new relationship…that this will DESTROY THEM.
These guys are losers and cowards.
And the best way to get back at them is to BE THE BEST VERSION OF YOURSELF.
Narcissists Are Cowards
This is a very cowardice world.
To be brave and confident is to them the utmost immoral thing you can do.
These people have no honor, dignity, or integrity.
You will never be able to reach them.
Focus on you. Be brave enough to walk and stand alone.
And be strong enough to deal with all the unjust attacks against you.
Flowers grow because dirt and sh*t are placed on it.
Weapons are forged because of being placed through fire.
And diamonds are formed because of the pressure that is placed on it.
You…are all the aforementioned.
Deal with the hard times because I promise you will come out stronger.
Sometimes you have to go through hell in order to get to heaven.
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Struggling With C-PTSD?
I often say that living with a narcissist is like living in a war zone! This comparison may very well seem hyperbolic, but research has shown that living around narcissists can have the same effects on a person’s mind as people living in a war zone!
I wrote an article describing the “10+ Mental Illnesses Caused By Staying With Narcissists“.
These people are monsters, plain and simple.
If you are struggling with emotional flashbacks, dealing with mental and emotional battles that NO ONE but yourself seems to see and feel, and if you find it hard to get out of bed every day, you may be dealing with C-PTSD.
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