Narcissist WANT You To Hate Them
I have often said that narcissists are attention fiends. They are kidults who foam at the mouth, needing attention.
They don’t care what type of attention they get.
Good or bad.
As long as someone is giving them some form of attention, they are happy. They are like parasites that feed on people to survive.
They love being loved by others. But they have a GREAT PASSION for being hated.
When they are hated, to them, it is a form of success. In their deluded minds, they believe that others are mad that they are not them.
Or worse, if they can turn someone that once loved them into hating them, they will go insane with pleasure.
They get a kick out of hurting those who would love them.
Listen, when DO NOT HATE YOUR NARC, and here is why.
Narcissist WANT You To Hate Them: Don’t!
What causes many of us to get caught off guard by the irrationality of narcissist thinking is that we give them the benefit of the doubt.
STOP!
Narcissists are the six-year-old kid who draws on the wall. They draw on the wall because they want mommy and day to pay attention to them.
And like the kids that narcissists are, so too will they do things to make us hate them.
Because in their mind, if we hate them, at least we are thinking about them.
They want us to think about them.
They know that their love “false love” can easily be pushed to the side.
But hate…HATE can linger on.
When you refuse to hate them and just become indifferent to them, they will shrivel up, like the parasites they are, and fade away.
When you hate them, YOU GIVE THEM POWER.
But when you become indifferent to the, YOU GAIN YOUR POWER.
Stop hating the narc.
Because that is EXACTLY what they want.
No Shame In Therapy
Narcissistic people can do a wonder on someone’s mind and psychology.
In fact, I wrote an article called “10+ Mental Illnesses Caused By Staying With A Narcissists“.
The narcissists and their legion of fools can slowly drive you insane. And sometimes the best help you can ever receive is from a stranger.
When everyone around you is trying to convince you that YOU are the bad person, sometimes an objective view of you from someone you don’t know maybe what saves you from drowning in the sea of insanity the narc and their legion of fools try and drown you in.
Therapy can help heal in ways that reading blogs, listening to videos, and talking with other WARRIORS (we are not survivors, we are warriors) can ever do.
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Narcs have a legion of fools behind them to hurt you, I think it would be a good thing to build your own army of warriors and allies to help stand by your side.
Very true. That’s why I always say, don’t look for revenge against a narcissist. You get dragged into their toxic world of drama and conflict. Which does you no good. Plus it gives them the attention they want.
The best way to get at a narcissist it to ignore them and go no contact.
1000% agree!
We must take a higher and nobler path and just WALK AWAY!
I agree he told me get over him sooner rather than later this was November 24,2019. I went no Contact from that day. Why December 27th he’s texting and January 2nd calling from a no caller id? I obeyed got over him so NO CONTACT is what it is😂
Great read. Totally concur with this. No revenge. Just thankful that toxic person is out of my life! What a nightmare and talk about wasting my time. I had a funeral for my narc. It is finished!
Bravo to you for SEEING the right path.
Revenge ONLY HURTS YOU NOT THEM!