Narcissist: The Time-Takers
Time is our most PRECIOUS commodity. It is because of this truth that narcs will do everything they can to take as MUCH time away from you as possible.
These people enjoy robbing you of a BRIGHTER, HAPPIER, MORE SUCCESSFUL, and UPLIFTING TOMORROW!
This is why they send people to REMIND you of your past. They send their legions of fools to try and keep you stuck in the past.
Because as long as you are trying to use your present moment to heal, grow, recover, and BECOME someone more than who you were, it takes away POWER from the narc.
Think about this.
Why does your boss demand that you work long hours at a job you hate?
Why do the narc and their legion of fools keep bringing up the past?
Think about why they do such nasty and horrendous things to you and post it on social media.
As long as you keep thinking about them, you feed their small little egos, and you also waste time on them.
Nothing…NOTHING makes these losers happier than but to take your time, destroy your life, and leave you as a sad broken mess on your de*thbed.
To them, this is a GREAT VICTORY.
Of all the things they can take, time, to me, is perhaps the worst thing they can take.
Narcissist: The Time-Takers
The Toxic Boss: Time-Takers
This probably goes without saying, but working for a toxic boss can be a nightmare. Toxic bosses make “making a living” a HELL.
Having someone dictate what days you will come into work, what hours you will work, having the audacity to give you hours that they know will interfere with your everyday life plans, such as going to your kids game, picking up a friend from the airport, or just spending time with your lover, is enough to drive anyone insane.
Developing anxiety, stress, and depression because of a toxic workplace IS NOT UNCOMMON.
Toxic bosses love the idea that they can CONTROL someone’s else’s life and time.
So…how can you get back your time and life?
There are many options.
The most obvious being to try and find another job.
But to be honest, in today’s digital world, and the whole global pandemic caused by a NARCISSISTIC COWARDLY REGIME, there is no longer a need to work for anyone.
If you have developed various mental illnesses, and yes, depression is a MENTAL ILLNESS, than what do you have to lose by working from home?
It may not be easy to get started, as there is much to learn, but consider the options.
Is working with a toxic boss for the next ten years or twenty years worth it? Is working for that retirement money worth it?
And consider this.
What if the toxic boss fires you years in, with you thinking you will get your pension or retirement funds, only to have them SET YOU UP so that you no longer get it?
Think about that.
These people are DISGUSTING.
If you have to work for a toxic boss, use whatever money you can spare to learn how you can earn money online.
Check out this site, Skillshare.
Here you will learn almost any skill you may want to liberate yourself from the tyranny of a toxic workplace.
SCREW HAVING A 9 TO 5!
Also, if you would like to start working from home and need a few places to look, check out this article “100+ ONLINE JOBS THAT PAY WEEKLY & BI-WEEKLY“.
The internet is more than just a means to escape your life; it can also be a greats means to improve your life.
Ha- Ha! Remember What I Did To You: Time-Takers
I have repeated this time and time to the point that it has become ad naseum, that narcs are kidults.
They are some of the most irrationally spoiled people you will come across.
They winge and complain over not:
- Being acknowledge
- Loved Enough
- Helped Enough
- Provided Enough
- Being given ice cream for breakfast
- And so on.
Narcs…are…children in grown adult bodies.
The only thing they don’t do is run around with chocolate frosting smeared on their face in their superhero onesie foot pajamas.
Although I don’t think this is something, THEY WOULDN’T do!
These clowns get a kick out of reminding you of what they did to you or took from you.
“Ha-ha! I made you look stupid. Nyeh!”
“Ha-ha! I took your time away from you. Ha-ha Ha-ha Haaaa!”
“I’m not your friend. Nyeh!”
Nyeh – is the sound that children make when they lick their tongue out at you. I have seen GROWN ADULTS DO THIS.
These people are like the six-year-old kid who draws on the mommy and daddy’s wall to get their attention.
They NEED ATTENTION like we need air to breathe.
So…how do you stop this and get your time, life and energy back.
I always preach the good gospel of going No Contact.
But when this is not an option, then you may want to consider Grey Rocking.
When they tease, like the kidults they are, just visualize them as a six-year-old.
And what hurts six years old the most?
Not being given attention.
When they tease, keep a neutral face.
Don’t frown OR smile.
Just nod and say, “Yes, that happened. I learned SO MUCH FROM IT.”
Think about this for a second.
Look at how actors or politicians behave when given a HARD TIME, not to say that they are the measure.
They remain cool, calm, and collected and rarely give any energy to nasty comments or “gotcha questions.”
Better yet…take a look at this video of the “GREAT” JORDAN PETERSON.
Watch how cool and calm he REMAINS.
This nasty UNPROFESSIONAL KIDULT news “reporter” (note the quotation marks around reporter) does everything in her kidult mind to get him to lash out.
Be Like JORDAN PETERSON.
GOD! I LOVE THIS MAN!
Watch how OFF GUARD SHE GETS when he sides with her and says she has the right to disagree with him and to be belligerent about it.
His “gotcha” comment wasn’t necessary, and he would later admit he shouldn’t have said that.
Overall, be like JORDAN PETERSON.
Watch The Full Interview Below to get a better understanding of how nasty and unprofessional she was.
Stop Giving The Narcissists Your Time
Your time is ALL you have.
Stop giving your time to trash that will never add any value to your life.
Every day, every hour, every minute, every second that you WASTE thinking about them is time you can NEVER GET BACK.
Use your time to better your life…not on these Time-Takers!
Struggling With C-PTSD?
I often say that living with a narcissist is like living in a war zone! This comparison may very well seem hyperbolic, but research has shown that living around narcissists can have the same effects on a person’s mind as people living in a war zone!
I wrote an article describing the “10+ Mental Illnesses Caused By Staying With Narcissists“.
These people are monsters, plain and simple.
If you are struggling with emotional flashbacks, dealing with mental and emotional battles that NO ONE but yourself seems to see and feel, and if you find it hard to get out of bed every day, you may be dealing with C-PTSD.
As great as support groups may be, or as profound as articles can be, they are no substitute for professional help.
Sometimes the best way to heal and move forward is with therapy.
Speaking with someone and getting the hurt off your chest is a great way to unload.
Online Therapy is a site that offers visitors the chance to speak with professional therapists who will be able to help you get through your emotional and psychological battles.
If you sign up with my link, you can get 20% off your first month’s session.