The Narcissist’s Favorite Game To Play: Narcissist Break Up Games
Narcissists are a funny, precocious lot of kidults.
The precocious kidult narcissist: “I wonder if I can fu*k up this person’s life, for NO REASON?” (Awkwardly tilts their head to the side as they wonder.)
One moment they can be all smiles and cheers, to next being a ball of piss and vinegar.
And we, the adults we are, usually have to tend to their irrational kidult mentality.
God, how sexy is it to see a grown-ass adult male yelling, screaming, and throwing things around.
Much like a two-year-old.
Damn, that is sexy, right, ladies?
And fellas, you sure did catch a prize with a chick who thinks she is a Disney Princess. God, the baby talk, that goo-goo-gaa-gaa nonsensical jargon, and gift-giving, is all so amazing.
DAMN, what a woman, right guys?
It is not uncommon for them to place the blame on us for their bad day, even if we had NOTHING TO DO WITH IT.
And it is not uncommon for them to praise us the next moment when they need something.
Living with a narcissist can be an experience that drives many people insane.
Narcissists play these games and wage these wars against us that we aren’t even aware we are playing or in a battle with.
And to a narcissist, this is the absolute best, playing games and destroying people’s lives, self-esteem, and dreams.
In this article, I want to explain what the narcissist favorite game is to play and how YOU CAN WIN AT IT.
Yes, it is possible to win at their insane games and win against them in their irrational battles.
The Narcissist’s Favorite Game To Play: “Can I Fu*k Up Your Life…FOR NO REASON”
The narcissist’s favorite game to play is:
( You have to say this in a gameshow audience chant)
LET’S…FU*K UP…THIS PERSON LIFE… FOR NO REASON!!!
So, how does the game work?
Well, simple. The narcissist comes into your life or the life of someone who has loved the narcissist, and they try and destroy that person’s life.
What does the narcissist get from destroying your life or the life of someone who has shown genuine love for them?
Why would they do this?
Because…it’s fun. (Awkward tilt to the head)
So what are the rules you may be wondering?
Rule number 1: You deserve this mistreatment. Why? Shut up; these are the rules.
Rule number 2: Everything you do is offensive. Even loving them, you ask? Yes.
Rule number 3: Nothing you do is offensive. But you just said that everything we do is offensive. Shut up. These are the rules. Stop thinking and using logic, okay?
Rule number 4: They are always the good guy. Even when they steal, harass, stalk, sabotage, hurt, bruise, cheat, lie, manipulate, and push people into psychotic breakdowns. Remember, they are always the good guy.
Rule number 5: You don’t get to think for yourself. Why? Hey! Hey! What did I just say? STOP THINKING.
Rule number 6: You are supposed to suffer for no reason, and they must watch this. And if you live happily, then they will tell on you. Okay. Just follow the rules because these are the rules. Okay. NYEH!
How Does One Win This Insane Game?
The only way to win the “narcissist game” is not to play the game.
By playing their insane game, you are giving them everything they want, which is attention.
You need to understand that narcissists love to play games where they drive people insane.
It gives them a kind of sense of worth and happiness.
To them, they believe that if they can destroy a life that they have power, not knowing that that is the mind of a toddler and small kid.
Once you stop feeding them attention and they LOSE.
Don’t reason with them. Stop trying to help them. And stop thinking you can get them to change with love.
They are hellbent on playing this irrational game of destroying your life.
Don’t let them.
Walk away and live your life on your terms.
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Narcissistic people can do a wonder on someone’s mind and psychology.
In fact, I wrote an article called “10+ Mental Illnesses Caused By Staying With A Narcissists“.
The narcissists and their legion of fools can slowly drive you insane. And sometimes the best help you can ever receive is from a stranger.
When everyone around you is trying to convince you that YOU are the bad person, sometimes an objective view of you from someone you don’t know maybe what saves you from drowning in the sea of insanity the narc and their legion of fools try and drown you in.
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