How cool would it be, if we could just forget that we ever met the narc that stumbled in our life? You know, like if we had the Men in Black memory eraser thing.
Wouldn’t that be cool? To completely forget about the narc and their legion of fools!
Gawd that would be heaven!
Well…there is something called memory erasure!
And it is not as science fiction as you may believe!
The more that I research, and the more stories I hear about how these parasites come into our lives and destroy our lives, for no reason other than because it just brings them happiness…it irritates me.
It irritates me at how insensitive they can be. How irrational they can be. And how weak of character they can be.
I often say this, and unapologetically so, that narcissistic people are parasites. They borrow their leech-like existence into our lives and leave maggot eggs of nasty thoughts in our minds to hatch later on after they have discarded us.
It can be hard to forget these monsters. It can be hard to move on, especially after they have taken so much and have done so much damage to us!
The idea of forgetting these people can seem like we are crying for the moon.
Nothing would help quite as much as completely forgetting that we ever met these people.
Well, maybe the apology and the recognition of them doing wrong to us.
But…we all know that the apology will never come!
So this is why memory erasure is a GREAT option for those trying to move on with their lives.
Although there may be some ethical and philosophical issues that arise from doing something like this — for people suffering from PTSD, anxiety, severe depression, and continually fighting back their suicidal ideation — this may be the panacea they have been waiting for!
Memory Erasure: Is Actually Possible To Forget The Narcissist
What is memory erasure?
“Memory erasure is the selective artificial removal of memories or associations from the mind.” – Wikipedia
Now, this may very well sound like science fiction, but it shouldn’t be.
We know that false memories can be implanted in us.
Just look at gaslighting.
That is the parasitic narc’s favorite tactic to drive us insane slowly.
“You never said that.”
“I never did that.”
“Your memory is so bad. Don’t you remember that I did this for you?”
This is one of the narc’s ways to borrow their parasitic insanity into our minds.
And just as memories can be implanted…THEY CAN ALSO BE REMOVED!
Memory Erasure Hack #1: Change The Context Of The Situation – Learn To Laugh!
It is essential to know that memories are malleable. They change throughout every revisiting of them.
Although the negative situation we were in was BAD (I am not taking that away), our look towards ourselves is GROSSLY unjust.
We look at ourselves with the image of who we are now…then.
And this is SO UNFAIR to ourselves!
We place SO MUCH WEIGHT, NEEDLESS WEIGHT, on our shoulders.
We would NOT DARE place this amount on anyone else.
So why do it to ourselves?
This places SO MUCH hurt on us that we neither need NOR DESERVE!
Now, this process of revisiting old memories and changing those memories is called memory reconsolidation.
Excerpt from Science Alert:
“The research suggests memories can be manipulated because they act as if made from glass, existing in a molten state as they are being created, before turning solid,” Richard Gray explains for The Telegraph. “When the memory is recalled, however, it becomes molten again and so can be altered before it once more resets.”
We know that memories are not 100% correct, which is evident in why so many people are against eye witness testimonies.
And this is very moot!
People can forget things or have MEMORIES INSERTED into them.
So if memories can be inserted, they can also be removed, or they can be changed!
Changing Your Perception: Why I Laugh!
I have gotten some feedback from some people, ENABLERS, who tell me, “You are a meany doo-doo head! Would you laugh at a person who was a schizoid? Huh! HUH? HUHHHHHHHHHH?“
And this is why I laugh!
Laughing At Narcs!
See, narcissism and NPD are not the same things. One is a trait that has been picked up, and the other is a PERSONALITY DISORDER.
I laugh at narcs and how they behave because it is funny. It is funny watching a 50+-year-old guy throwing a temper tantrum.
That is HILARIOUS!
In my eyes, I see them as grown babies who are upset. As much as we laugh about a toddler trying to pull a quick one over us, so is it hilarious to see a 50+-year-old guy behaving like a toddler.
I often want to ask them, “do you want your pacifier”…but I think myself above probing them.
It is funny to see a 30+year old female still think she is a Princess.
That is FUNNY!
Why do you think you are a Disney princess?
What looney toon existence are you living in?
Narcissism is a trait, not a disorder.
And even if it is a disorder, laughing at the insanity these people live in is not a crime.
Disorder or not, THESE PEOPLE HAVE NO RIGHT TO HURT US!
So, I reframe the incidents in my mind.
I look at their lies, gossiping, smear campaigns, and their desire to destroy me as a child writing on the wall because they don’t get attention.
In my eyes, they are children, and the things they did were not to hurt me — but to get my attention.
I reframe my negative past and turn it into a comedy show called “Dennis the Narcissist,” with their catchphrase being “I didn’t do it.“
All topped off with a 70s show sitcom audience laughter playing in the background.
Yes, I turn these people into an insane 70s sitcom show!
Hack #2 – Block Propranolol
NOTE: I AM NOT A PSYCHIATRIST or A PROFESSIONAL IN HEALTH. THIS IS JUST INFORMATION THAT I CAME ACROSS AND THOUGHT YOU MAY BE INTERESTED IN. SPEAK WITH YOUR DOCTOR IF YOU DECIDE TO GO DOWN THIS ROUTE!
Now, there can be an argument made against using drugs to forget the past. And some ethical and philosophical issues will arise.
But…for the person who is waking up at night in sweat due to their anxiety getting the best of them…this may be a good option.
For the person who is dealing with PTSD and cannot get out of bed or get out of their house because they have been so damaged…this may be a good option.
For the person dealing with crippling depression and is deluged with suicidal ideation…this may be a good option.
Negative memories are so easy to implant in our minds. And when you couple the fact that they have their flying monkeys, their smear campaign, their legion of enablers all trying to get people to go against you and make YOU THINK AND BELIEVE THAT YOU ARE THE BAD GUY…this may not be a bad option.
The human mind can only take but so much, and when you are outnumbered by so many, it can be quite the challenge to overcome all these negative thoughts!
Especially when you legit have NO ONE around you to help you and agree with you that you are not the bad person!
If it had not been for my PERSISTENCE, what the loser narcs and their flying monkeys would call my stubbornness, I would have been driven insane.
Thank whatever god that may be for my firm belief in individuality!
For those who are struggling day to day, hour to hour, MINUTE TO MINUTE with thoughts of yesterday and yesteryear, this may be an option you want to look into!
Check out this article “Revisiting propranolol and PTSD: Memory erasure or extinction enhancement?“
This drug usage is more for people who have been struggling with PTSD for a long time!
PTSD cripples one’s life; which is precisely what these parasite narcissists are looking to do!
Hack #3 – CREATE NEW MEMORIES
Lastly, this is perhaps my favorite hack.
Create new memories!
Here are just a few things you may want to consider doing!
- Connect with new people – Take it slow, of course.
- Reconnect with old friends and family members.
- Start a business – Start that business that you always wanted to. I have found starting a business or doing a project I love is a great way to get my mind off of a negative past!
- Take up a hobby – I love comic books. I adore comic books. So I have been collecting comics and even been writing out my comic series.
- Deluge your mind with things that bring you happiness.
- Plan a trip – Plan a trip to a different city or to a different country.
- Consider learning a new skill – Skillshare (this is an affiliate link) offers hundreds of classes online that you can take up today for free!
- Learn dancing or a new instrument.
Do things that will bring you happiness and bring you new memories!
We get but one chance at life, ONE CHANCE!
Whether you believe in a god or not, we get ONE SHOT AT LIFE. There are NO REDOS with this!
To think about the parasite worthless trolls that are the narcissist for the remainder of our lives is the greatest injustice we can ever place upon ourselves.
Remember, YOU have power over your mind and your memory. Stop letting these parasites live in your mind.
Extermin*te them and live your life on your terms.
“Our memory is a more perfect world than the universe: it gives back life to those who no longer exist.”― Guy de Maupassant
No Shame In Therapy
Narcissistic people can do a wonder on someone’s mind and psychology. In fact, I wrote an article called “10+ Mental Illnesses Caused By Staying With A Narcissists“.
The narcissists and their legion of fools can slowly drive you insane. And sometimes the best help you can ever receive is from a stranger.
When everyone around you is trying to convince you that YOU are the bad person, sometimes an objective view of you from someone you don’t know maybe what saves you from drowning in the sea of insanity the narc and their legion of fools try and drown you in.
Therapy can help heal in ways that reading blogs, listening to videos, and talking with other WARRIORS (we are not survivors, we are warriors) can ever do.
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Narcs have a legion of fools behind them to hurt you, I think it would be a good thing to build your own army of warriors and allies to help stand by your side.