Love Is A Practice: Narcissists Will Never Give You True Mature Love
I come across many people who want and who desire SO STRONGLY, to have their narcissistic partner love them. These people work so hard to show their partner they are loved. They work so hard to show their narcissistic parasite of a partner that they are willing to give up who they are.
And in the end, what happens?
- Overwhelming stress
- Devalued Self-worth
- Suicidal Ideation
- Massive Self-hatred
- and much worse
Narcissistic people cannot ever give you love. And this false love that Hollywood and society (because almost every culture on earth does this symbiotic love) passes off as TRUE LOVE, is what causes so many heartbreaks.
And if you are in a relationship, and all you are doing is giving and pouring out…and you aren’t getting anything in return…
These creatures will suck you dry and move on to the next person.
You love someone for WHO THEY ARE…not for what they can do for you.
And with narcs, they cannot do anything positive for us anyway.
“The main condition for the achievement of love is the overcoming of one’s narcissism. The narcissistic orientation is one in which one experiences as real only that which exists within oneself, while the phenomena in the outside world have no reality in themselves, but are experienced only from the viewpoint of their being useful or dangerous to one. The opposite pole to narcissism is objectivity; it is the faculty to see other people and things as they are, objectively, and to be able to separate this objective picture from a picture which is formed by one’s desires and fears.”― Erich Fromm