Let the narcissists laugh. Let the flying monkeys spread rumors. Allow the onlookers to pass snide comments. Let “friends” and “family” give you the “cold shower”.
And while they do this…smile.
Smile in your heart for what they THINK you are, while you KNOW what they are.
Smile and laugh inside because the best medicine in life…is laughter.
Let them think they have won…because in war…those who win, are those who let their enemies think they had the upper hand.
So, let them laugh now because the final laughter… is the best laughter.
Let The Narcissist Laugh
It can be a strenuous situation; being surrounded by narcissists and flying monkeys. No matter what you do for the narcissist, or don’t do, nothing will ever be enough for them.
And this is because narcissists have a very skewed way of perceiving the world.
Happiness and pleasure for them are seeing other people suffer and fail. They have an innate need (and yes some narcissists I do believe are BORN not made; check out this article psychopaths are born) to cause harm to others.
Narcissists, much like psychopaths, lack empathy. So to them, we aren’t individuals. We are just here to make their lives and world better, or more entertaining.
Because they lack empathy trying to reason with them about your feelings is basically for naught.
You cannot reason with a narcissist. When they hurt us and we explain to them why we are hurt, what they hear is…
(And no…this is not a picture error. You see nothing because that is what the narc hears; NOTHING)
Narc’s find our pain as either nothing important to consider or humorous.
They think to themselves “How hilarious is this? They think they are people. Muhahahahahaha.”
Check out this quick little comic strip on “Helping a Narcissists” below 👇
Let Them Laugh: The Flying Monkeys
The narc, along with their flying monkeys (who have NO MINDS OF THEIR OWN) relish in the idea that talking about us, teasing us, smear campaigning us, destroying our image, and basically trying to ruin our life, is in “their” hands.
The flying monkeys will be even more exhilarated than their Narcs Master at the idea they are destroying a life.
To the flying monkeys, they are on the “winning side”. They idolize their Narc Master like a drone or a slave.
They are so oblivious to the idea that they are being used by the narcissists as well. So low on the scale of self-awareness; they live vicariously through their Narcissistic Master.
They (the narc and flying monkeys) are both twisted beyond reasoning that this is why I say…let them laugh.
We Are Out To Win The War…Not All The Battles
I am a FIRM ADVOCATE, nearly to the point of being wholly militant on this idea…THAT WE MUST NEVER…NEVER…EVER BECOME OUR ENEMY.
The narcissist hates us because they can not control us. And the flying monkeys hate us because we have something they will never have.
And that being…character.
The narc knows this; which is why they try and take it from us. And the flying monkeys know this hence the, wait for it…CHARACTER ASSASSINATIONS.
This is why they are so adamant and so diligent in spreading rumors, and gossiping about us.
They LOATHE the idea that we have a character. And to them, because they don’t have it, they don’t want others to have it either.
Unless their narc master has it of course.
They are some of the most loyal animals on this planet; sorry dogs.
Narcissist and flying monkeys will spend their whole LIVES trying to tear down instead of build up. They will spend their whole lives trying to destroy instead of creating. And they will spend their whole lives thinking about everyone else except themselves.
We must spend our entire lives becoming the best versions of ourselves. Use our time to build our dreams. We must create our stories. And we must forever be ourselves.
I want you to imagine this…
The Narc and Flying Monkeys Final Days
They get to the end of their lives with NO ONE by their side. The narc is scared, timid, old, and still foolish. They have accomplished NOTHING in their life that will be remembered.
The narcs look back on their lives in their final moments and they start to regret.
They regret WASTING THEIR TIME trying to destroy us. They regret wasting their time spreading rumors. And they regret never focusing on themselves.
Why do they regret all of this?
Because the time they spent trying to tear us down…we spent building ourselves up. And they, through constantly watching us their whole lives…finally realize this when we are successful and they…they are nothing and they are dying; while we LIVE ON.
They spent their whole life watching us and we spent our lives not giving a damn about them.
Tell me…isn’t this a happy ending for us?
They get their just desserts and we didn’t have to do anything but be happy and live our lives.
We stuck to winning the WAR and didn’t focus on every battle.
And that…that is why we let them laugh.
So Let Them Gossip And Rumor
Let them laugh thinking they are hurting us.
Let them roll around of the floor thinking they are destroying our image.
And let them laugh THINKING they know who we are…when in actuality they are so far removed from EVER knowing who we are.
That final moment will meet us all. And as Ralph Waldo Emerson so eloquently put it:
“The most difficult thing a man can do is to be himself in a world that is constantly trying to change him”.
By staying true to who we are and not caring what the narc or flying monkeys say or do…
We will have the LAST LAUGH.
No Shame In Therapy
Narcissistic people can do a wonder on someone’s mind and psychology.
In fact, I wrote an article called “10+ Mental Illnesses Caused By Staying With A Narcissists“.
The narcissists and their legion of fools can slowly drive you insane. And sometimes the best help you can ever receive is from a stranger.
When everyone around you is trying to convince you that YOU are the bad person, sometimes an objective view of you from someone you don’t know maybe what saves you from drowning in the sea of insanity the narc and their legion of fools try and drown you in.
Therapy can help heal in ways that reading blogs, listening to videos, and talking with other WARRIORS (we are not survivors, we are warriors) can ever do.
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Narcs have a legion of fools behind them to hurt you, I think it would be a good thing to build your own army of warriors and allies to help stand by your side.