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Build Your Confidence After Being Discarded

Narcissists perceivably (pay attention to this word here) suck all the hope, joy, happiness, and confidence out of their victims. 

It is not uncommon for people who were once happy, hopeful, confident, and exceptional people in their community to become after living with a narcissist, a shell of their former selves. 

Narcissists, like I mention so many times in my articles, are like a drug. 

They can make us feel good in the beginning, but after a while, they cause serious problems for us. 

Problems such as: 

  • Developing depression (Check out my article “6 TIPS FOR THOSE DEALING WITH DEPRESSION” if you are dealing with depression)
  • Losing self-respect
  • Suffering from anxiety
  • Suffering fro PTSD
  • Losing their CONFIDENCE
  • And so much more

Build Your Confidence After Being Discarded

Living with a narcissist is like living in a toxic environment. The longer you stay around them, the worse you become. 

Now, in the beginning, I said that narcissists perceivably suck all the hope, joy, happiness, and confidence out of their victims. 

But I emphasized “perceivably” because I do not believe, and I am quite sure about this fact, that narcissist DO NOT TAKE AWAY OUR CONFIDENCE

BUT WE GIVE AWAY OUR BRAVERY. 

We have more power than we know. The narcissist knows this (and still sees it in us), hence the constant smear campaigns against us. 

But here is the thing, WE HAVE THE POWER TO KEEP or REGAIN OUR BRAVERY

Narcissists do not take away our confidence; they just conceal it from us with their gaslighting and manipulative tactics. 

No Shame In Therapy

Narcissistic people can do a wonder on someone’s mind and psychology. 

In fact, I wrote an article called “10+ Mental Illnesses Caused By Staying With A Narcissists“.

The narcissists and their legion of fools can slowly drive you insane. And sometimes the best help you can ever receive is from a stranger. 

When everyone around you is trying to convince you that YOU are the bad person, sometimes an objective view of you from someone you don’t know maybe what saves you from drowning in the sea of insanity the narc and their legion of fools try and drown you in. 

Therapy can help heal in ways that reading blogs, listening to videos, and talking with other WARRIORS (we are not survivors, we are warriors) can ever do. 

Join my Facebook Fan Page “No Shame In Therapy” to get a 20% discount on your first-month session, as well as articles and updates on the benefits of therapy.

Narcs have a legion of fools behind them to hurt you, I think it would be a good thing to build your own army of warriors and allies to help stand by your side. 

Reason87

I call myself the Rational Humorist. Narcs to me are cancer to humanity. The only way to beat cancer is to fight back against it.

The best way to defeat a narc is to see them as the jokes they are.

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