“Don’t fear the narc; laugh at the narc. Because laughing at the narc will make your life so much easier.”
Narcissists are nothing more than paper tigers. They are grown children playing it adult. They are the big kid on the playground. Narcissists are the three-year-old out of control. They are nothing more than immature children in grown adult bodies.
The purpose of this website is to humor those who have been hurt by narcissists. At times, I know that going out and trying to get revenge can feel like you have redeemed yourself.
But no one gets clean when you play in the mud. And a narc’s most entertaining game to play has you in a dirty place with them.
The Best Revenge Is To Be Unlike Him Who Has Done You The Wrong
Marcus Aurelius once said in his great journal “Meditation,” “the best revenge in life is to be unlike him who has done you the harm.”
Narcs are scared, hurt, insecure, frighten, self-absorbed, and unaware lot. They have no idea that the world exists without them. And that the world and the people they have hurt will, too, live without them.
The best revenge that you can ever bestow upon a narc is to live YOUR LIFE happily, successful, and not in your life.
When you MOVE ON with your life — you get back what they took from you; which is…YOU.
Understand these creatures have no sense of understanding that people are unique individuals. This is why they can hurt others without feeling any remorse.
When you walk away from the narc, you get back yourself, but you also deal a GREAT blow to their fragile little egos.
Learn To See The Humor About Narcissists
The website “Laughing At Narcs” is not meant to mean to make fun of the narc (in the sense of “ah-ha. ah-ha”), but to realize the absurdity behind their actions and thinking.
It can be so easy to sink into nihilism and cynicism after being with these creatures. But to fall into that state would be a VICTORY to them.
So learn to laugh.
Learn to see the humor about narcissists.
Laugh at the insanity they had done to you.
Laugh at the irrationality they experience all of the time (just being themselves).
And laugh…laugh at how, despite what they did…THEY DIDN’T BREAK YOU.
Laugh…because laughter is the best medicine.
No Shame In Therapy
Narcissistic people can do a wonder on someone’s mind and psychology.
In fact, I wrote an article called “10+ Mental Illnesses Caused By Staying With A Narcissists“.
The narcissists and their legion of fools can slowly drive you insane. And sometimes the best help you can ever receive is from a stranger.
When everyone around you is trying to convince you that YOU are the bad person, sometimes an objective view of you from someone you don’t know maybe what saves you from drowning in the sea of insanity the narc and their legion of fools try and drown you in.
Therapy can help heal in ways that reading blogs, listening to videos, and talking with other WARRIORS (we are not survivors, we are warriors) can ever do.
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Narcs have a legion of fools behind them to hurt you, I think it would be a good thing to build your own army of warriors and allies to help stand by your side.