When I started seeing a therapist, she asked me, “You don’t know what creepy is, do you?” I remember kind of looking at her in this quizzical way because I did not know what she was getting at. However, upon giving the query a little bit of consideration, it had dawned on me that I had spent my whole life marveling at others when they would say someone was creepy or weird or “off.”
I gave unconditional love, I boosted his ego, gave him ridiculous amounts of praise, respect, accolades. I made every tiny accomplishment a monumental congratulation. I took care of his parents, took care of his dying brother, I drove him to work and picked him up (23 miles, 45-70 minutes one way) in traffic, for almost 3 years, because he lost his driving privilege. Note: I worked seven minutes from our home.
In the Narcissists Delusional Grand Deception/Mask of Perfection mind, they CAN DO NO WRONG. Every single one of them truly believes they are the best and perfect. This delusional high lasts indefinitely; as long as they have no one who doubts this.
If TV and Hollywood have taught us anything, it is this. TRUE LOVE CONQUERS ALL. Narcissistic people can change and be committed to their victims…um, lovers. All they need is a good leash to keep us forever linked in their hands. Um…I mean a good reason to stay. So in this article, I will explain how you can make your narcissist stay committed to you.
It is an unfortunate truth in life that there are going to be people that come into our lives that will have NO UNDERSTANDING of boundaries. And if they do they will try and cross them. If you want to learn how to set boundaries in relationships, in this article I give you 10 effective ways to do so.
The narcissists that come into our lives are the Alpha and the Omega. They are the beginning and the end. There is no such thing as life after leaving a narcissist. Because without them…we are nothing and there is nothing. So if you are hoping for a better life (which is a bit perplexing as we all know there is no greater life that one can have then but to be with a narcissist) just stop it.
When leaving a narcissist or being discarded by a narcissist the best way to heal yourself is by becoming a victim. Because when you become a victim you gain so much in life.
I am a firm believer in the “No Contact” method. This is NOT a punishment, but it is — in every sense of the word…LIBERATION. Narcissistic people cannot see beyond their myopic view of the world. They have no understanding that people are worlds and beings unto themselves. No. In a narcissistic person’s mind, people exist for
For many of us who have been in toxic relationships the idea of “getting back” at the person who harmed us, used us, manipulated us, and hurt us can seem like it is the only way for us to move on in our lives.
50 moving forward quotes to help those who are stuck in the past. These quotes about moving forward can help you take the steps in the right direction.