I want you to imagine for a second, the narcissist in your life becoming a millionaire by hitting the lottery (heaven knows most of these clowns do not want actually to work for it)!
I want you to imagine that they found the sexiest, most sexually appealing partner that anyone could ever want.
Now, I want you to imagine them in a fancy house, with a nice car, a loving family, and them living the best life — and doing so AFTER DISCARDING YOU.
Imagine how you would feel.
That pain of them being happy would be like a stake in your heart, and it would torture you to no end!
Now, take that pain you would feel and place it in the kidult narcissist’s mind!
Understand this about narcissistic people; seeing others do well in life is like a stake in their heart. And nothing hurts them more and twists the knife in their heart more than seeing someone they discarded THRIVE and becoming more successful AFTER leaving the narc.
These people are like animals, reptiles, to be precise!
They view others as having happiness, success, and joy in their lives, as hoarding happiness, success, and joy.
Keep Improving Who You Are
These people are a JOKE!
I promise you this, by picking yourself up (I know it is not easy), dusting yourself off (believe me, you are not the only one to succumb to these people), and keep on keeping on (the past will do everything it can to drag you back) you will CRUSH THE NARC ON A MASSIVE LEVEL!
These people are NOT playing with a full deck, and by you simply being happy and living your best life without them in it — you crush their egos in a way that violence would never be able to equal!
To seek revenge is what they want; by improving yourself and not thinking about them, you benefit you and simultaneously get revenge but in your/our way!
Pick yourself up because to fall into that pit of pity is exactly what they want!
Remember….”Misery LOVES Company!”
Struggling With C-PTSD?
I often say that living with a narcissist is like living in a war zone! This comparison may very well seem hyperbolic, but research has shown that living around narcissists can have the same effects on a person’s mind as people living in a war zone!
I wrote an article describing the “10+ Mental Illnesses Caused By Staying With Narcissists“.
These people are monsters, plain and simple.
If you are struggling with emotional flashbacks, dealing with mental and emotional battles that NO ONE but yourself seems to see and feel, and if you find it hard to get out of bed every day, you may be dealing with C-PTSD.
As great as support groups may be, or as profound as articles can be, they are no substitute for professional help.
Sometimes the best way to heal and move forward is with therapy.
Speaking with someone and getting the hurt off your chest is a great way to unload.
Online Therapy is a site that offers visitors the chance to speak with professional therapists who will be able to help you get through your emotional and psychological battles.
If you sign up with my link, you can get 20% off your first month’s session.