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Why You Must Not Contact The Narcissists After A Discard

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Why You Must Not Contact The Narcissists After A Discard

It is very important to know your/our worth! Narcissistic people discard people because they longer need them or because they want to hurt the person.

Either way, the discard is not a means of ending things amicably but more so to hurt a person.

Reaching out to a narcissist after they have discarded, you only serve to boost their small, petty egos.

It shows them that “Hey! I am so amazing! This person NEEDS ME in their lives. I am such a catch.”

Why You Must Not Contact The Narcissists After A Discard

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Moving on can be very difficult for many people, especially those who have been heavily trauma bonded with the narcissists or who have developed codependent tendencies.

Some people develop Stockholm syndrome-like qualities and prefer to be with someone who abuses them, puts them down, gaslight the hell out of them, places them through so much drama, and so much more!

The human mind, once broken and fractured, can be a difficult thing to repair.

Chasing after the narcissist and trying to reopen a failed relationship is NOT a good thing to do!

Imagine it this way!

You once lived in Chernobyl and were sick every day from the toxic environment — but you could get out of Chernobyl and live in a healthy environment.

What sane reason could you possibly argue for going back and living in Chernobyl?

This is the same idea for trying to go back to a toxic narcissistic relationship.

If you were discarded, see it as a blessing that you no longer have to deal with their kidult irrational acts and behavior.

If you need support, then feel free to check out these support groups!

Codependency will destroy you!

Get to the heart of the problem as to why you feel you need to have that person in your life, and you will see that you aren’t missing out on anything important.

There are so many better fish out there in the sea, don’t settle on a goldfish!

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I call myself the Rational Humorist. Narcs to me are cancer to humanity. The only way to beat cancer is to fight back against it.

The best way to defeat a narc is to see them as the jokes they are.

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