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Why People Who Harm Us Are People Who Hold Grudges The Most

People Who Hold Grudges

Why People Who Harm Us Are People Who Hold Grudges The Most

“Grudges are for those who insist that they are owed something.” – Criss Jami 

It is a strange act, to be wronged by someone and then to be hated and have a grudge held against us for the wrongs THEY DID TO US!

Life is a constant teacher and a reminder that people in life are not playing with a full deck.

Most people aren’t playing with half a deck.

The emotional immaturity of people is astonishing.

Most people have the emotional maturity of a three-year-old and the mental capacity of a five-year-old, i.e., Kidults.

Much like a spoiled brat who does something wrong but is ashamed of doing what they did — they throw a hissy fit at the person they did wrong to.

Why People Who Harm Us Are People Who Hold Grudges The Most

People Who Hold Grudges

It is a shame of wronging someone that makes them hold a grudge.

Is it our fault they did wrong to us?

No!

But in their irrational, immature, and backward minds, they get angry that they wronged us. And they get angrier that we don’t try and wrong them back.

Nothing shows toxic and negative people how disgusting a person they are — then but for them to harm us and to have us NOT trying to harm them back in the same manner.

What destroys people like this — is for us to be wronged and then for us to become even better people after the harm they did to us.

The best revenge, as Marcus Aurelius once said, “is to be unlike him who has done you the wrong.”

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I call myself the Rational Humorist. Narcs to me are cancer to humanity. The only way to beat cancer is to fight back against it.

The best way to defeat a narc is to see them as the jokes they are.

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