“Welcome to the wonderful world of jealousy, he thought. For the price of admission, you get a splitting headache, a nearly irresistible urge to commit murder, and an inferiority complex. Yippee.”― J.R. Ward
Nothing hurts a narcissist more than seeing someone outshine them in life, merely by being who they are.
I often write, to the point of ad naseum, that narcissistic people are losers, kidults, weak of character clowns that live in a delusional fantasy world of their warped creation — where mediocrity is king and anything above, slightly, must be destroyed!
Much of society has this perception that narcissistic people are grandiose — that they are snobbish, selfish, and only care about who they are.
Although some narcissists exemplify these characteristic traits, not all of these traits can be attributed to narcissists.
As I wrote in one of my articles, “The Different Types Of Narcs,” not all narcs are grandiose.
I do believe that there are far less grandiose narcs than there are covert narcs.
I have no proof to back up my claim, but just something that I think — from what life has taught me!
This is the silent narc (the covert narc) who sits in the shadow, destroying people’s lives, all the while they play the victim.
These are the narcs that we must be ever vigilant about.
The silent killers of egos, dreams, goals, and a happy life that someone may be trying to create for themselves.
These are the narcs who have a massive inferiority complex!
And people with an inferiority complex will do some of the most irrational, inhumane, emotionally fueled attacks on a person they feel inferior towards!
The victim card grants them the chance to hurt and manipulate people and do so with the MORAL SNOBBISHNESS that they are victims!
“Do what I say, and if you don’t, then you’re a bigot.”
“Love me as I am, or you’re a fascist.”
“Give me what I want, or you’re an elitist, racist misogynist part of the system.”
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The Covert Narcissist Silent Killer Has A Massive Inferiority Complex
“Moral indignation is jealousy with a halo.”― H.G. Wells
The number of covert narcs out there, I cannot give an estimated guess on!
But I do believe that they are numerous.
I often write that being rational, sane, and just a good person is a rarity.
Almost everyone you come across in life has some form of inferiority complex — and to combat this feeling of not measuring up to the person they are jealous of, they will try and destroy that person by TEARING THEM DOWN.
“We’ll take you down a peg/notch.”
“I can’t get to your level, so I will just drag you down.”
Your utter destruction is the only way that they can feel good about who they are.
Seeing you angry, hurt, confused, broken, on depression pills, on drugs, alcohol, or someone who has fallen short of their goals in life is a MASSIVE BOOST TO THEIR EGO!
“I become great by destroying someone who is great and takes on their greatness!”
These fools are not playing with a full deck!
And d*mn when these lesser people get into a group. Mob mentality, gangstalking becomes a religion to them! And like the fanatics of certain religions, they will practice their religion with fanaticism!
People who have inferiority complex do not know how to build themselves up — and this is because they have been knocked down so much in life they don’t have the strength to pick themselves up — but they can knock someone down or pull someone down!
It is far easier for a person who has fallen to trip someone or pull at their ankles to try and drag them down — then to make an effort to pick themselves up.
By giving up on your dreams, goals, and desires in life, you grant the narc, the inferior-minded narc, a victory!
You Existing Hurts Them
The mere fact that you exist hurts them!
And what will kill these foolish melodramatic clowns is you succeeding in your goals and dreams — when they worked so hard to keep you from succeeding.
To a loser, another person’s success, even if it had NOTHING TO DO WITH THEM, is insulting to their ego.
Read that again!
I can’t tell you how many of these losers I have met who have told me how they hate how others accomplish life goals.
These fools are so pitiful! They are so low in character!
If you give up in life on your dreams, you make them happy.
Yes, they will continue to smear you, gossip about you, and try to make you feel less than. They will try and get as many people to be against you — because they know…by themselves, THEY DON’T MATTER!
This is why they work so hard to make others get hyped up to hate you.
“Hatred is the coward revenge for being intimidated.” – George Bernard Shaw.
The inferior mind finds strength in numbers; the great mind finds strength in themselves!
You don’t win with these fools by playing their games.
You don’t win with these fools by trying to reason with them.
They will see your reasoning with them as you “TALKING DOWN TO ME“!
You don’t get them to grow up and see the error of their action.
God, they will do something blatantly wrong and work day and night to try and shift their wrongdoing on to you. They do not know how to take responsibility for their action!
You win against these inferior minded fools by being YOU!
Accomplishing that goal.
Succeeding in that dream!
Creating that loving family!
REMAINING TRUE TO WHO YOU ARE…not having them corrupt you!
This is the ultimate way to remind them of how inferior they are.
And I might say it ad nsaeum…but d*mn…
NARCS ARE SUCH LOSERS.
Stop pitying people who pity themselves!
Don’t let them destroy your life!
Succeed when they worked so hard to make you a failure…and you win!
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Struggling With C-PTSD?
I often say that living with a narcissist is like living in a war zone! This comparison may very well seem hyperbolic, but research has shown that living around narcissists can have the same effects on a person’s mind as people living in a war zone!
I wrote an article describing the “10+ Mental Illnesses Caused By Staying With Narcissists“.
These people are monsters, plain and simple.
If you are struggling with emotional flashbacks, dealing with mental and emotional battles that NO ONE but yourself seems to see and feel, and if you find it hard to get out of bed every day, you may be dealing with C-PTSD.
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