The Narcissists

They (The Narcissists) Will Say That They Hate You Because…


They (The Narcissists) Will Say That They Hate You Because…

They will say that they hate you because you’re arrogant.

They will say that they hate you because you care about no one but yourself.

They will say that they hate you because you don’t care about their feelings.

They will say that they hate you because you are rude.

They will say that they hate you because you always lie to them.

They will say that they hate you because you are stuck up and need to come down a peg.

They will say that they hate you because you are skinny and you need to put some meat on your bones.

They will say that they hate you because are fat and you need to lose some weight.

They will say that they hate you because you are black.

They will say that they hate you because you are white.

They will say that they hate you because you are a woman.

They will say that they hate you because you are a man.

They will say that they hate you because you are too old.

They will say that they hate you because you are too young.

They will say that they hate you because you are a dreamer.

They (The Narcissists) Will Say That They Hate You Because…

The Narcissists

Translation

I hate that you have pride in who you are…so I will say you are arrogant.

I hate that you will put yourself before me. I know you will NOT put up with my nonsense…so I will say you are a selfish monster who only cares about yourself.

I hate that you will not parentify me…so I will say you don’t care about my feelings when I throw a kidult temper tantrum.

I hate that you stand up for yourself when I attack you UNJUSTLY…so I will just say you are rude.

I hate that you will not live in my make-believe world and live my lies and you will live your truth…so I will try and gaslight you into believing that your truth is a lie and my lies are the truth.

I hate that you are so much better than I will EVER BE…so I will try and bring you down a peg in the realm of morality.

I hate that you have a healthy attractive body. I know that I will not be able to keep you as you are now…so I will sabotage you into gaining weight. Then…then no one will want you.

I hate that you are losing weight and getting healthy…so I will keep calling you fat so that you doubt your weight loss program is working.

I hate that you seem to be cool, confident, and you seem to have character. I feel like a loser…so I will attack your skin color instead of your character.

I hate that you seem better off than me, more affluent, and more prosperous…so I will say it’s because of privilege and racism.

I hate that you are a WOMAN who knows her worth…so I will become a misogynist and say all women are hoes and b*tches. I’ll bring you down a peg for feeling good about yourself. It’s only fair, you would leave me if you ever dated me. I’m just hurting you before you hurt me.

I hate that you might not be faithful to me…so I will call you a dog and stalk your social media. I know you would cheat on me if you got the chance despite you showing no signs you are interested in other women.

I hate that you are wiser than me and I hate that you will not be my parent…so I will call you an old senile fart. You don’t know what’s going on in the world.

I hate that you are younger than me and SO ACCOMPLISHED. It makes me realize I wasted my life being jealous. Jealousy has gotten me NOWHERE and seeing you at that age ACHIEVING THINGS, hurts me…so I will sabotage you and tell you not to be so successful so young. Hell, if I can’t have it the next best thing is to keep others from getting it.

I hate that you are a dreamer. That despite all the hard times in life you keep dreaming and working for a better life, while I live a nightmare…so I will tell you not to be so hopeful and try and steer you on the path of mediocrity. I will tell you how you can fail in your dreams in so many ways and tell you I say this so you don’t get hurt down the road. I will seem sympathetic but in reality, I don’t want you to reach your dreams.

See…

I say that I hate you, but I hate that you remind me of what I can not be, what I will never be, what I will not have with you, and what you will never see in me.

I hate how you make me REALIZE …WHAT I AM

Which is a loser.

And instead of trying to improve who I am, I will work day and night to make you hate yourself.

How does that feel, huh? Huh?

I hate that you love yourself, while I hate myself.

This is why I say I hate you because…

No Shame In Therapy

Narcissistic people can do a wonder on someone’s mind and psychology. In fact, I wrote an article called “10+ Mental Illnesses Caused By Staying With A Narcissists“.

The narcissists and their legion of fools can slowly drive you insane. And sometimes the best help you can ever receive is from a stranger. 

When everyone around you is trying to convince you that YOU are the bad person, sometimes an objective view of you from someone you don’t know maybe what saves you from drowning in the sea of insanity the narc and their legion of fools try and drown you in. 

Therapy can help heal in ways that reading blogs, listening to videos, and talking with other WARRIORS (we are not survivors, we are warriors) can ever do. 

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Narcs have a legion of fools behind them to hurt you, I think it would be a good thing to build your own army of warriors and allies to help stand by your side. 

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