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5 Relationship Red Flags To Look Out For

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5 Relationship Red Flags To Look Out For

Being in a relationship for many people is the acme of achievement for their lives — and there is NOTHING WRONG with that. We get one chance at life and I do believe it is important that we live this one life we have as HAPPILY as we can.

Having someone in our life who makes our lives feeling worthwhile is a GIFT that we should all look for.

Having someone we can confide with, laugh with, and grow with is a beautiful thing to have.

But it is very important to learn how not to be blinded by love and to NOT ignore the red flags.

Red flags are always there, but love has a funny way of blinding us to them.

In this article, I want to outline 5 relationship red flags that you should look out for

5 Relationship Red Flags To Look Out For

1 – Relationship Without Trust

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Trust, as the saying goes, “is hard to build, but easy to destroy.”

With toxic partners (they don’t always have to be narcissist) they want you to trust every word (lie) they say, but they want to be open to scrutinizing you.

“Where did you go?”

“What were you talking about with that person?”

“How long are you going to be out with your friends? What are you guys doing? I need to know.”

These may seem like questions of concern, but understand this is how toxic people talk out both sides of their mouths.

It may appear to be like they caring about your safety — but it is just their sneaky little way to see if you are cheating on them or going to leave them.

2 – Relationship Abuse

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Abuse does not always have to be physical. Many people are unaware of the different forms of abuse out there. And this is one reason why people stay in toxic narcissistic relationships for so long.

Many of us have been so thoroughly conditioned to believe that abuse means a black eye that we stay with a psychological and emotional abuser for months, years, and even decades.

If someone is always bringing you down with rude remarks or trying to make you THINK and BELIEVE you are a bad guy (gaslighting) when you know you aren’t, you are clearly dealing with someone who just wants you around so they can hurt.

Do not be ANYONE’S punching bag.

3 – Jealousy: Jealousy Is NOT A SIGN OF LOVE…IT IS A DISORDER

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Great relationship advice here…a partner who is jealous is not a partner you want to be with.

This idea that “I act jealous because I love you,” is a gaslighting technique that people use to try and keep a person in their life.

Now, yes, there are people, many people, who may exhibit jealousy in a relationship. But that is NOT HEALTHY and ore times, you push the person you love away because NO ONE LIKES THAT BEHAVIOR.

Jealousy is an ugly thing to have and it is a “relationship insecurity” that needs to be squashed!

4 – Always Finding Fault: Relationship Red Flags

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A relationship is all about UPLIFTING one another. It is NOT about tearing each other down!

If your partner is constantly devaluing you, then this is someone you DO NOT NEED IN YOUR LIFE.

5 – No Respect For Boundaries

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Lastly, someone who cannot respect your boundaries needs to go. As an adult, you/ we should know how to respect others boundaries and we should also know our own boundaries.

If the partner you are with fails to respect your boundaries this is when relationship is over!

Relationship Red Flags

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Narcissistic people can do a wonder on someone’s mind and psychology. In fact, I wrote an article called “10+ Mental Illnesses Caused By Staying With A Narcissists“.

The narcissists and their legion of fools can slowly drive you insane. And sometimes the best help you can ever receive is from a stranger. 

When everyone around you is trying to convince you that YOU are the bad person, sometimes an objective view of you from someone you don’t know maybe what saves you from drowning in the sea of insanity the narc and their legion of fools try and drown you in. 

Therapy can help heal in ways that reading blogs, listening to videos, and talking with other WARRIORS (we are not survivors, we are warriors) can ever do. 

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Narcs have a legion of fools behind them to hurt you, I think it would be a good thing to build your own army of warriors and allies to help stand by your side. 

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I call myself the Rational Humorist. Narcs to me are cancer to humanity. The only way to beat cancer is to fight back against it.

The best way to defeat a narc is to see them as the jokes they are.

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