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Hey! Why Haven’t You Blocked Their Number Yet

Hey! Why Haven't You Blocked Their Number Yet

Hey! Why Haven’t You Blocked Their Number Yet

You say that you are done with the narc in your life. That you are finally putting an end to the drama and chaos.

You say that you are tired of their BS. That you no longer want them in your life.

Yet, you still…KEEP THEIR NUMBER on your phone. You still have them as FRIENDS on social media platforms. And you may even nod at them if you see them on the street.

So, I ask…HEY! WHY HAVEN’T YOU BLOCKED THEIR NUMBER YET IF YOU ARE FINISHED WITH THEM?

And the truth of the matter is that you are not finished with the narc. You secretly deep down want them to come back to you.

You are still fantasizing about that FAKE PERSON they showed you when you first met.

And I hate to break this to you, but that person never existed, and the narc will never be what you want them to be.

Hey! Why Haven’t You Blocked Their Number Yet

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I wrote an article explaining why No Contact is so challenging. I’ll admit that it is NOT EASY to cut them out of your life.

They may be family, close friends, ex-lovers you share a kid(s) with, or you may have become so dependent and accustomed to their harmful lifestyle that you can no longer go without MONDAY MORNING MANIA!!!!

Whatever the EXCUSE…um…reason, yeah, umm…reason it is that you seek them in your life, understand this NOTHING GOOD WILL COME OF IT.

There are far too many stories pf people welcoming the narc back into their lives, only to have the narc completely DAMAGE and DESTROY the person’s life.

These people don’t reach out to make amends. They reach back out to finish destroying you.

BE WISE and STRONG

You may very well feel like you are lonely and that you have no one to reach out to. But even if this is true, is having the company of a narc better?

These people live only to destroy.

There is NO HAPPY ENDING WITH THESE PEOPLE IN YOU LIFE.

If you want to move on with your life and heal, you have to BLOCK these people from your life.

You must ghost them or go no contact to heal.

They never loved you, and they will NEVER LOVE YOU.

I know this may hurt, but what will destroy you is giving them the gun they dropped the first time to destroy your life and place it back in their hands so they can take a second shot at destroying you.

If you have left them, block them, and move forward with your life.

Your future self will thank you.

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I call myself the Rational Humorist. Narcs to me are cancer to humanity. The only way to beat cancer is to fight back against it.

The best way to defeat a narc is to see them as the jokes they are.

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