Confidence Scares A Narcissistic Beta Male
Now, this is not a knock at Masculinity. I am a MAN, and I believe that Masculinity is a great thing for the world.
Just like Femininity is an excellent thing for the world.
Toxic Masculinity, where a guy beats and humiliates their girls, is WRONG.
Toxic Feminism, where chicks are going out there saying all men are “r*pists” and “dogs” and “It’s my body, I do want I want with it,” IS WRONG.
A MAN should not hit a woman and a WOMAN should not bait a guy to hit her.
PLAIN and SIMPLE!
This goes BOTH WAYS.
But back to point.
Narcissistic Beta Males (N.B.Ms) are LOSERS.
They know this about themselves. They know that they will never be the BRAVE MAN who stands alone. Narcissistic Beta Males will never be the genius who saves millions.
The N.B.Ms will never be the fathers whom their kids ADMIRE.
The N.B.Ms will NEVER BE THE LOVER that other MEN can be to their women.
And the N.B.Ms WILL NEVER EVER BE A MAN.
Toxic Masculinity is a thing. I do not deny it.
And it is N.B.Ms that have created and represent Toxic Masculinity.
If you are a WOMAN or a MAN who has to deal with these losers, the best thing you can do is to have EXTREME CONFIDENCE IN YOURSELF.
Confidence Scares A Narcissistic Beta Male
N.B.Ms are males and understand that I make a distinction between males and MEN. A male can have a penis but still not be a MAN.
There are several traits and characteristics that a man has. And I think no other man best said what it is to be a man, then my main MAN, RUDYARD KIPLING (And please let’s keep the politics out. I LIKE THE POEM, okay?!)
If you can keep your head when all about you
Are losing theirs and blaming it on you,
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you,
But make allowance for their doubting too;
If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
Or being lied about, don’t deal in lies,
Or being hated, don’t give way to hating,
And yet don’t look too good, nor talk too wise:
If you can dream—and not make dreams your master;
Ef you can think—and not make thoughts your aim;
If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster
And treat those two impostors just the same;
If you can bear to hear the truth you’ve spoken
Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,
Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken,
And stoop and build ’em up with worn-out tools:
If you can make one heap of all your winnings
And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss,
nd lose, and start again at your beginnings
And never breathe a word about your loss;
If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
To serve your turn long after they are gone,
And so hold on when there is nothing in you
Except the Will which says to them: ‘Hold on!’
If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,
Or walk with Kings—nor lose the common touch,
If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you,
Ef all men count with you, but none too much;
If you can fill the unforgiving minute
With sixty seconds’ worth of distance run,
Yours is the Earth and everything that’s in it,
And—which is more—you’ll be a Man, my son!
Narcissistic Beta Males Have An Insatiable Desire To Destroy Confidence
These LOSERS know they will never accomplish anything of worth. They know they will never be able to climb great heights or overcome great obstacles.
I have noticed many pictures of woman, BEAUTIFUL woman who you can LITERALLY see the glow taken away from them while being with a narc.
What is so amazing is that once they leave and GO NO CONTACT that glow…that confidence is back.
And you CAN VISIBLE SEE IT.
It is not the makeup. It is not the hair done. And it is not the filter on the phones.
What you see is a glow that can only come from getting back one’s confidence.
Narc beta males are like black holes that seek to suck up all the light that comes in their path.
They are soulless, hurt, and destructive people.
You gain NOTHING…NOTHING…from staying with these losers.
Stop Feeling Like A Loser Because You Stayed With Them
You know, there is such a thing as masculine psychology and feminine psychology. Argue with me if you want.
But men and women are different, so save the SJW nonsense for someone else.
The psychology of the feminine (womanhood) is to nurture, to heal, to grow, to uplift, and TO LOVE.
That is what Positive Feminine psychology is all about.
The toxic masculinity psychology is the direct opposite of the aforementioned psychology.
They know what the feminine psychology is all about, and they seek those who will FEEL SORRY FOR THEM and try and SEE THE GOOD IN THEM.
This is just what they are and what they do.
But the best way to get back at them is NOT to try and make them say sorry but to get your glow back.
Get Your Glow Back: Be As Confident As Possible
I know it can be difficult as HECK trying to get your confidence and glow back, especially if you have been with the narc for an extended period.
They know how to devalue a person (and check out my article as to WHY they devalue you. I give a pretty good analogy as to why they do it).
Staying with them will only strip more and more self-esteem from you and leave you shattered and broken.
If you let them break you, you then become what I call “A Broken Empath,” a narc’s greatest invention.
Gaining your confidence will be a DAILY BATTLE that you have to engage in. This is NOT something that you will be able to get right away.
But the best way to start is to GO NO CONTACT with the narc. If you cannot go No Contact, then I highly recommend that you Grey Rock them.
Whatever you do, to get your confidence back, YOU NEED TO GET AWAY FROM THEM.
What this first does is show them that YOU CAN LIVE WITHOUT THEM.
AND THEY ARE FEARFUL THAT YOU WILL FIND THIS OUT.
They are such losers (and again…I don’t attack men or masculinity, society treats GOOD MEN LIKE CRAP).
Now, for many, this will be difficult as gong No Contact is like going cold turkey if you are on hard drugs.
You will want to get back with the narc because you feel your love will change them.
Or your hate for them will want you to get revenge on them for hurting you.
But these play right into these narc beta males.
These guys are are the epitome of what it is to be a LOSER, WEAK COWARD.
For Guys Who Have To Deal With Them
KEEP YOUR COOL! This irritates them when their kidult temper tantrums don’t even make us flinch.
To be the stronger man, STAY IN CONTROL OF YOUR EMOTIONS.
These losers HATE THIS.
Keep cool bros!
Because they want us to be broken like them.
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Don’t let the narc strip all the life out of you. Be defiantly happy, as I say.
Dare to love yourself.
Dare to work on yourself.
AND DARE TO BE CONFIDENT.
Because confidence is anathema to coward narc beta male.
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