When A Narcissist Is Jealous
The rude looks, snide comments, eye-rolling, and gossiping behind your back are ALL signs that a person is EXTREMELY jealous of you.
Jealousy, as I often write, I believe, is a MENTAL DISORDER. The idea that you can look at someone YOU DO NOT KNOW and have so much hatred is lunacy.
With narcissistic people, this is especially more venomous. As these people are already erratic with their feelings.
Narcissistic people are emotionally unstable, and their egos are very fragile.
So trying to reason with these people is for naught. Trying to understand why they are upset with you WHEN YOU CLEARLY DONE NOTHING TO THEM is pointless.
The saying “haters gonna hate” is effusively true when you consider a narcissist.
Please stop trying to find common ground with these people because they are HELLBENT on not meeting you.
When A Narcissist Is Jealous: Everything You Do Is Wrong
I know you may think YOU have done something wrong because of the narcissist evil eye they give you.
But know this, that evil eye is just their jealousy. They are looking at you so wickedly NOT because you did something to them but because they see you as amazing.
And to protect their fragile little egos, they want to fluff you out. Hence the SMEAR CAMPAIGNS and the CHARACTER ASSASSINATION.
It is very important to remain in control of your emotions.
Nothing shows a narc how UNIMPORTANT they are then for you to stay true to who you are.
By not reacting negatively or reacting at all, you show them they are not significant enough to dampen your character.
Learn to detach yourself when you are around a narcissist.
And more importantly, DO NOT TRY AND REASON WITH THEM.
DO NOT ASK THEM, “DID I DO SOMETHING TO UPSET YOU?”
DO NOT ASK THEM, “DID YOU SAY SOMETHING WRONG?”
AND DO NOT…DO NOT ACKNOWLEDGE THEIR PETTY ANGER.
By doing this, you give these trolls the ammunition to hate you for whatever made-up thing they think you did to them.
For example, JUST BEING YOURSELF.
These losers will hate you because you are GREAT in their eyes, and they are NOTHING in their own eyes.
And you know what…
THAT IS NOT YOUR FAULT.
DO NOT PLAY HERO TO THESE LOSERS (narcissist NOT people with NPD; so take that crap somewhere else…enablers).
And don’t try befriending them because they will knife you in the back as soon as the opportunity comes.
They Hate Themselves NOT You
Understand this, these people have a MASSIVE amount of hatred for themselves. And much like how they blameshift their wrongs on others, so too will they shift their hatred for themselves on others.
DO NOT TAKE IT PERSONAL.
Because this is what these losers by choice want.
Live your life without them, and that will prove to them how worthless they are. Take nothing personally, and I GUARANTEE that you will become successful.
Successful and happy people do not take criticism from people THEY DON’T KNOW personally.
And even if you did live with a narc for some time, the person you met NEVER EXISTED.
So don’t feel bad about leaving.
And never apologize for being you because of their jealousy.
Haters are just gonna hate.
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