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You Are Amazing: Just A Reminder To Those Who Have Dealt With A Narcissist


You Are Amazing

This is just a reminder to those who feel like they are nothing. A reminder to those who may have been discarded. A reminder to those who have to deal with the daily onslaught of insults and beratement.

This is a reminder to those who feel worthless and maybe even stupid (WHICH YOU ARE NOT) for staying so long with the narcissist.

YOU ARE AMAZING.

But you have forgotten how amazing you are because of the narcissitic fog the narcissist has lifted over your vision of yourself.

Listen, the narcissist that you have had the unfortunate experience of letting into your life knows/knew how amazing you are.

In their jealousy, because they can never be what you are, they did everything in their power to devalue you.

And this right here is the first thing that shows that you have value and worth as a person.

You can only devalue something that has value.

You can only tear down someone that is above you.

And you can only try and destroy when you cannot build.

YOU ARE AMAZING!

And here is why.

You Are Amazing: Just A Reminder To Those Who Have Dealt With A Narcissist

If you were truly nothing, would they have wanted to be with you? If you were truly nothing amazing, would they keep trying to stalk you and gossip about you?

Look at the smear campaign. These people have NOTHING BETTER TO DO with their lives because they are NO ONE. And they need yours/our attention to validate their own worthless existence.

If you were truly nothing, would they go out there a way to try and destroy you?

How can you destroy NOTHING/NO ONE?

You can only destroy something or someone.

Nobodies cannot be destroyed.

But SOMEONE(S) can.

YOU ARE AMAZING. 

Think Back To Who You Were Before You Met The Narcissist

Who were you before you met the narcissist? Think back to that amazing person you were.

Did you love to sing? Dance? Write? Draw? Teach? Do business?

What was it that THAT PERSON loved to do.

To get back to being the amazing person you were and still are (that person is just imprisoned in the narcissistic fog), you must go NO CONTACT.

And you must go no contact regardless if they discarded you or you have to be the one to break it up.

NO CONTACT will be the gust of sanity that will blow away the irrational narcissistic fog to help you find that person you really are.

Giving Up Is What These LOSERS (The Narcissist) Want You to Do

By giving into their idea that you are worthless, you satisfy their ego. Their opinion, along with their legion of fools (flying monkeys and enablers), should have no bearing on you.

You have to understand that people who hate themselves want others to hate themselves as well.

These people are broken people who want others around them to be broken.

We are diamonds. They are glass.

And because of not only our brilliance but our resilience, they hate us and try and destroy us.

But because we are diamonds, we are made better under pressure.

YOU ARE AMAZING. 

Speak Positively To Yourself Every Day

Every day that you wake up speak positively to yourself. Speak affirmation that reaffirms your worth as a UNIQUE special, BRAVE, and AMAZING PERSON.

Ruminating over the wrongs they have done to you is exactly what these losers want.

And I know it can be tough to get over them of you have spent years to decades with them.

But you must remember that you only get ONE SHOT AT LIFE.

Tomorrow is not guaranteed to any of us.

And every day that you spend wasting it on seeking revenge, looking for an apology, or hoping that they will come to some understanding is a day that you can never get back.

This Is Why You Are Amazing

You are amazing because you are still seeking to heal after being so damaged.

You are amazing because you are trying to understand your enemies’ mentality (you are researching about narcissism as much as you can…lesser minds and characters cannot do that).

Amazing you are because you still hold up a smile when all you want to do is cry on someone’s shoulder.

That takes SOOOOO MUCH STRENGTH OF CHARACTER and HEART.

You are amazing because you force yourself out of bed every day when everything in you tells you to lie in bed and rest with that depression.

You are amazing because every day is a struggle to go on…BUT YOU DO.

And you are amazing because YOU ARE YOU.

Never Give Up On Yourself

The easiest thing to do when things get hard is to give up.

Narcissists do this.

Life has hurt them; that is why they behave the way they do.

We as empaths and as RATIONAL ADULTS must never give up on ourselves.

Your story of struggle can someday be the blueprint for someone else who is going through the same things you are going through.

Never give up on yourself because your kids need you. Your family needs you. Your friends need you.

But most importantly, YOU NEED YOU.

And all you need to save yourself from the feelings of depression, anxiety, PTSD, stress, insomnia, and any other mental, psychological, and emotional issue is yourself.

Embrace the GREATNESS that is you and YOU…WILL…HEAL.

You are amazing, and NEVER let anyone else tell you why.

Your Deepest Fears

“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It’s not just in some of us; it’s in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.” – Marianne Willianmson

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I call myself the Rational Humorist. Narcs to me are cancer to humanity. The only way to beat cancer is to fight back against it.

The best way to defeat a narc is to see them as the jokes they are.

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