Narcissists Are Second-Rate Losers!
Now, I know this may be a very contentious statement to say, but we all know that the truth hurts.
You need to learn how NOT to care what these people think, say and do behind your back.
If they had a life of their own and if they were happy with who they are, they would not do such a thing, as trying to destroy another person’s life.
Winner focuses on winning and achieving and loser focuses on winners.
You are a winner, NOT an idiot.
Narcissists Are Second-Rate Losers: Stop Caring What They Think
Ayn Rand Best Said It
“Do you know the hallmark of a second rater? It’s resentment of another man’s achievement. Those touchy mediocrities who sit trembling lest someone’s work prove greater than their own – they have no inkling of the loneliness that comes when you reach the top. The loneliness for an equal – for a mind to respect and an achievement to admire.
They bare their teeth at you from out of their rat holes,thinking that you take pleasure in letting your brilliance dim them – while you’d give a year of my life to see a flicker of talent anywhere among them. They envy achievement, and their dream of greatness is a world where all men have become their acknowledged inferiors.
And they don’t know that that dream is the infallible proof of mediocrity because that sort of world is what the man of achievement would not be able to bear. They have no way of knowing what he feels when surrounded by inferiors – hatred? no, not hatred, but boredom – the terrible, hopeless, draining, paralyzing boredom. Of what account are praise and adulation from men whom you don’t respect? Have you ever felt the longing for someone you could admire? For something, not to look down at, but up to?”
“I’ve felt it all my life,” she said.” ― Ayn Rand, Atlas Shrugged
Remember Hurt People Hurt
Narcissists, despite their bravado, are scared and hurt little children (kidults) who have not the strength of character to learn from the pain that life has taught them.
In their entitled way of thinking, they believe that because they have been hurt, SOMEONE has to suffer as a result.
They are losers who cannot see the lessons in pain.
If you have been hurt by a narcissist KNOW THAT IT IS NOY BECAUSE YOU DESERVED IT or THAT YOU ARE NOTHING.
It is because you are SOMEONE amazing, and to a loser who will never be anything more than a second-rater, that hurts them.
Don’t seek revenge, seek being who you are.
Remaining TRUE to who you are, when others are hellbent on destroying your character is the greatest revenge.