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The Narcissists Needs Reassuring Love: Don’t Give It To Them

The Narcissists Needs Reassuring Love: Don't Give It To Them

You Are Not Their Parent

If you really want to get to your narcissists, but can not go “No Contact“, then give them no reassurance. Grey rock the hell out of them.

When I say don’t give them reassurance it doesn’t strictly mean to love.

When I say no reasurnace I mean, NO:

  • Apologizing
  • Explaining
  • Asking what is wrong
  • Making them breakfast
  • Preparing things for them

DO NOTHING FOR THESE PEOPLE.

This will drive them batshit insane (well, more batshit insane), and you keep your sanity.

By giving into their insanity, by REASSURING THEM, you only validate their crazy mindsets.

And much like a toddler who cries and cries and cries…given time, they will cry themselves to sleep.

One of the best ways to deal with a narcissist is to simply not reassure them and validate their insanity. They will “crazy” themselves out; sooner or later.

And not reassuring them gives you back your POWER.

About Author

I call myself the Rational Humorist. Narcs to me are cancer to humanity. The only way to beat cancer is to fight back against it.

The best way to defeat a narc is to see them as the jokes they are.

(2) Comments

  1. Isabelle's says:

    How do you know for sure if a person is a narcissist?

    1. Check out my articles:

      This is my answer I placed on Quora

      https://www.quora.com/How-can-you-identify-a-narcissist/answer/Xavier-Ludwig

      This article outlines the signs of a female narcissist

      https://laughingatnarcs.com/index.php/2019/07/10/7-signs-of-a-narcissistic-woman/

      This article outlines the signs of a male narcissist

      https://laughingatnarcs.com/index.php/2019/07/09/signs-of-a-narcissistic-man/

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