When leaving a narcissist, or being discarded by a narcissist, the best way to heal yourself is by becoming a victim. Because when you become a victim you gain so much in life.
Things such as:
- Taking No Responsibility For Your Life – “Oh! Woe is you…YOU ARE THE ONLY ONE THIS HAS EVER HAPPENED TO”
- Sad Music That Only You Can Hear – Hey! Your life is a soap opera TV drama. So keep hamming it up.
- The Sadness From People YOU DO NOT KNOW – It’s a good thing to have strangers and people you will NEVER converse with feeling sorry for you.
- And so much more
In this one life we have, instead of moving on with our lives and actually becoming the masters of our vessels and the captain of our souls, the best thing to do is to play the victim.
Because in life…winners do not win; victims do.
The Only Way To Heal
Victimhood…the only way to heal.
In today’s world where anyone can be what they want, if they but put in the time and effort to actually become what they want…it is foolish and idiotic to actually try and become someone great.
It is much better to keep playing the victim card.
The reason that you cannot leave your narcissistic partner is because of financial reasons.
Even though there are hundreds of thousands to millions of people (myself included) making money online.
The reason that you cannot leave your narcissistic partner is because of the kids.
Even though we know kids that grow up with narcissistic parents have the same brain scans as soldiers who have PTSD, so keep subjecting INNOCENT KIDS to their insanity.
What the hell is childhood but a ONCE IN A LIFETIME EXPERIENCE, right?
The reason that you cannot find someone better than your narcissistic partners is that they are the absolute best you can ever do.
Even though your standards have been heavily influenced by their gaslighting tactics.
No…staying with a narcissist and feeling like a victim is the hallmark of what it is to have a happy and healthy relationship; along with a good life.
So keep on wasting your life and playing the victim.
Because on your deathbed, you will look back at the life you wasted and SMILE at the life you threw away.
This Is A Spoof: There Is No Empowerment In Being A Victim
In today’s world where everyone has become so influenced by the TOXIC VICTIM MENTALITY, it would seem like that is the only way to live after being mistreated by a narcissist.
I mean if MILLIONS OF PEOPLE ARE DOING IT…IT MUST BE RIGHT, right?
Life is a goddamn gift.
We have all been hurt in life. We have all been misled and mistreated.
But those of us who are the most successful in life are those who have looked at the wrongs they endured and as a result, used it to EMPOWER THEMSELVES.
There is no power in playing the victim.
But there is great power in turning that pain into strength.
Stop being the victim…because that only makes the narcissist happy.
Hero let tragedies empower them. Villians let tragedies DEFINE THEM.