So you want your narcissist to feel guilt over the cruel, vain, and hurtful things they did to you? And you want them to feel some level of shame for the CONSCIOUS choices they made. Well, in this article I will show you how to appeal to their NONEXISTENT empathy and compassion.
Because if narcissists have taught us anything, they are some of the most humble, kind, tender-hearted, and selfless…um selfish?
Selfless people, you will ever come across.
That is why they keep on lying, cheating, using, manipulating, hurting, gaslighting, smear campaigning, character assassinating, spying, sabotaging, and setting us up to be as miserable as we can.
They do all of this because…they are good people who will most definitely feel guilt over the wrongs they CONSCIOUSLY AND WILLFULLY DONE TO US.
Keep on holding on because that apology will come.
Oh, cool it seems like hell has finally frozen over.
And what’s that…a flying pig.
And they said the day would never come.
This Is How You Make Your Narcissist Feel Guilt and Shame
# 1 – Appeal To Their Humanity (Ha. Ha. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA)
Narcissists are some of the most humane people you will come across. So humane that they feel a need to trash everyone around them.
See, they keep us down in life because they care about us.
They care about us being beneath them. And that…that is a sign of ultimate love.
How does that work?
Know your place…SCUM.
# 2 – Tell Them You Will Change
YOU BETTER CHANGE WHO YOU ARE.
Who do you think you are to be uniquely you?
Forget about the one in 400 trillion odds it took in the universe for you to be YOU (born).
Screw the universe. Screw existence. And screw god.
The only purpose you have to live is to be what the narcissist wants.
If they want a blonde.
Go blonde your hair.
If they want a guy who can dance.
You better learn the “mashed potato”.
They can do the twist.
Twist your mentality. (Get the reference?)
When you do this, they will feel guilt and shame.
Hey, stop with the logic and reasoning. Once you get that into your neocortex you can enjoy the insanity and depravity of the amazing narcissistic relationship.
Oh! How beautiful and wonderful life is with a narcissist.
# 3 – Take The Blame FOR EVERYTHING
How does you “taking the blame” for their wrongdoings make them guilty?
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Listen, narcissistic people, do not feel guilty. If they do, know that they will pass that guilt and shame on to someone else.
You have to stop trying to reason with these people. They are illogical and very very proud to be so.
I wrote an article titled, “Stop Waiting For The Apology“, which you should read, about how these people are very unapologetic.
These people are shameless, guiltless, and immature.
They can blow up your house and place the blame on you.
They feel no guilt.
If you are waiting for an apology or trying to make them feel guilty…STOP.
Because you will only cause more harm to your emotional and psychological well-being.
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Narcissistic people can do a wonder on someone’s mind and psychology. In fact, I wrote an article called “10+ Mental Illnesses Caused By Staying With A Narcissists“.
The narcissists and their legion of fools can slowly drive you insane. And sometimes the best help you can ever receive is from a stranger.
When everyone around you is trying to convince you that YOU are the bad person, sometimes an objective view of you from someone you don’t know maybe what saves you from drowning in the sea of insanity the narc and their legion of fools try and drown you in.
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