What Is The Purpose Of Playing The Victim?
I want you to stop and really ask yourself this question. What is the purpose of living your life as a victim? What do you gain from always WALKING ON EDGE?
Ask yourself these questions.
What is the purpose of feeling scared your whole life?
What is the purpose of never feeling like you are loveable?
Tell me, what is the purpose of feeling shameful, regretful, worthless, sullied, beaten, brutalized and hurt by life?
What do you gain…from feeling like a victim?
Tell me…what do you gain from BEING A VICTIM IN LIFE?
Suffering Is A Choice: Why Playing The Victim
Pain in life WILL ALWAYS BE HERE.
There is nothing you can do to avoid it in life.
Numbing yourself with drugs does not take away the pain. It only prolongs the inevitable.
Drinking yourself silly doesn’t drown your sorrows. It only nourishes the weeds of self-pity that strangles your hopes and happiness in the garden that is called your life.
Complaining and seeking pity does not strengthen you. IT WEAKENS THE HELL OUT OF YOU.
Being a victim weakens the hell out of you. It takes away your happiness, your joy, your hopes, your dreams, and most of all YOUR LIFE.
Staying in a constant state of fear has monumental negative effects on your health.
The saying “stress kills” is not just a saying people spout out there ad nauseam.
No…stress can literally “F” you up. And excuse the somewhat crass and explicit language — as you can see most of my articles are devoid of profanity — but you NEED TO WAKE UP.
I know you feel hurt. I know you feel used, manipulated, and stupid for EVER LOVING THESE PEOPLE.
You feel like an IDIOT for ignoring the signs.
What Is The Purpose Of Living Your Life As A Victim?: Playing The Victim Keeps You Stuck
When you play the victim and feel sorry for the past that you lived, you are only making the narcissist happy and you are only robbing yourself FROM YOURSELF.
We have all been hurt in life.
But those of us who are happy and successful in life are those who ARE NOT VICTIMS.
They, like all of us, have been hurt. But they use their pain to better themselves.
Life…is hard for all of us.
But life, unlike the narcissists, is worth fighting, struggling, and hurting for.
Stop being a victim and start to see yourself as your own hero.
Your story of healing could be the blueprint for someone else who is struggling.
Poem On Life
Life is a challenge…meet it.
Life is a gift…accept it.
Life is an adventure…dare it.
Life is a sorrow…OVERCOME IT.
Life is a tragedy…FACE IT.
Life is a duty…perform it.
Life is a game…play it.
Life is a mystery…unfold it.
Life is a song…sing it.
Life is an opportunity…take it.
Life is a journey…complete it.
Life is a promise…fulfill it.
Life is a beauty…praise it.
Life is a struggle…FIGHT IT.
Life is a goal…achieve it.
Life is a puzzle…solve it.
No Shame In Therapy
Narcissistic people can do a wonder on someone’s mind and psychology.
In fact, I wrote an article called “10+ Mental Illnesses Caused By Staying With A Narcissists“.
The narcissists and their legion of fools can slowly drive you insane. And sometimes the best help you can ever receive is from a stranger.
When everyone around you is trying to convince you that YOU are the bad person, sometimes an objective view of you from someone you don’t know maybe what saves you from drowning in the sea of insanity the narc and their legion of fools try and drown you in.
Therapy can help heal in ways that reading blogs, listening to videos, and talking with other WARRIORS (we are not survivors, we are warriors) can ever do.
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Narcs have a legion of fools behind them to hurt you, I think it would be a good thing to build your own army of warriors and allies to help stand by your side.