What get’s many of us to crumble, to hurt, to fall, to sink into the bottomless void of nihilism…is this idea that if we could just get the narcissist to understand what they did to us, then we could heal. But understand this, the narcissists will not understand you.
Once you understand that they will not understand how you feel, you can move on in life and finally heal from the insanity that was them. These people are insanely irrational. And they are very proud of their irrationality.
They are very proud of how insane they can drive people to be. And they are very proud of the lives they destroy. Because as I so often say, “success to a narcissist is in destroying another life.”
In accepting the un-understandable (Yes, this is a word. Look it up) mentality in regards to the narcissistic person; you can move on and heal.
Accept That They Will Never Understand You And You Heal
You must learn to see the narcissist’s treatment and actions towards you as a part of nature.
A hurricane just destroys. A tornado just destroys. And a tsunami just destroys.
We don’t hold grudges towards these elements of nature; we just accept them. And we accept them because they are just INEVITABLE. They exist and they will continue to be here.
Narcissistic people are just forces of nature. These people REALLY DO NOT THINK. They just react in life.
They attack us because they see us as threats.
If there is one thing you NEED TO UNDERSTAND, to keep you from continuing to badger yourself; is this. You weren’t an idiot for being innocent and trying to help these people.
(Come on…TWEET THAT.)
Once you let go of this idea that they will someday, somehow, and maybe somewhat understand your feelings you can finally heal and move on in life.
The wrongs that they did were not meant to destroy us…but to shatter our innocence and thus bring out our wisdom.
No Shame In Therapy
Narcissistic people can do a wonder on someone’s mind and psychology.
In fact, I wrote an article called “10+ Mental Illnesses Caused By Staying With A Narcissists“.
The narcissists and their legion of fools can slowly drive you insane. And sometimes the best help you can ever receive is from a stranger.
When everyone around you is trying to convince you that YOU are the bad person, sometimes an objective view of you from someone you don’t know maybe what saves you from drowning in the sea of insanity the narc and their legion of fools try and drown you in.
Therapy can help heal in ways that reading blogs, listening to videos, and talking with other WARRIORS (we are not survivors, we are warriors) can ever do.
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Narcs have a legion of fools behind them to hurt you, I think it would be a good thing to build your own army of warriors and allies to help stand by your side.