So you guys separated for the umpteenth time and you feel like you want to move on. But then all of a sudden you get a text message from them asking, “Hey, how you doin’ ;)”. Now you are questioning if you can really stay separated. Well, if you are thinking about letting them come back in your life…Let Your Narcissist Move Right Back In With You.
Peace at home is just an illusion.
Home should be a battleground, not a place of peace and tranquility. Your partner should be the person you worry more about then the addict hanging out on the corner, not a person who actually backs you up in life.
And your life without the narcissist should only be a pipe dream, not a reality.
We get one life and the most productive thing to do with it, it is to give it to someone who will waste it or destroy it.
So, if you are contemplating if you should let your narcissist back into your life…STOP.
Let them back in into your life to destroy your life because that is what love is all about.
Oh, blessed chaos how you brighten up our lives. Oh wait, that’s just the fire they started to burn down the house.
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Life Will Be Better This Time
Despite them doing the whole “break up to make up” thing, this time will be different. And why will this time be different?
Because they said it would.
Have they made any changes?
Have they actually improved in their behaviors?
And have they even apologiz….hahaha, excuse me. I can’t even get through this without laughing. Them making a mistake is OUR fault, not theirs. I keep forgetting that.
Despite them doing NONE OF THE ABOVE…this time will be different.
And them saying it over and over and over and over and over to the point that it becomes ad nauseam, know this… “this time will be different”.
Why enjoy a peaceful life when you can have a needlessly chaotic life?
Why enjoy improving yourself when you can continue to denigrate?
And why should you be happy with your life? Who said you can be happy? Who told you that you can live your life without your sadistic narcissist?
You being happy with your life at NO HARM TO ANYONE is narcissistic.
Believe your narcissist when they tell you that you are the narcissists for moving on and not wanting to deal with NEEDLESS DRAMA AND CHAOS.
They only say what is best for you.
And what is best for you is to suffer under their boot.
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Welcome The Chaos Back In
So your kids don’t like the narcissists?
They are just kids.
Your friends are telling you they are no good for you.
They need to mind their own business.
Your parents, who have been pleading (So many parents…so many) for you to come to see them and find someone better, don’t know anything.
What would your loving parents, who have always been there for you, know?
Our parents are just growing old and senile.
I think it’s time to put them in an old folk’s home, right?
But I’m pretty sure your narcissist has already told you that though.
Our parents just don’t know that this is how love has progressed.
They need to get with the times or move the hell out of the way.
Am I right or am I right?
In today’s society, EVERYONE IS DEPRESSED IN THEIR RELATIONSHIP.
So that makes it okay, right?
Why think for ourselves?
That is what makes us so stupid.
Stop! Do NOT Let Your Narcissist Move Right Back In With You
These people LIVE OFF OF CHAOS. They enjoy drama. They enjoy chaos. And your suffering is orgasmic for them.
“Ahhhhhhh! Your suffering…turns me on.”
There are too many cases where these people come back into their victim’s lives and they don’t just mess up their lives…
THEY END THEIR VICTIMS LIFE.
(Male and female)
If you have separated for the UMPTEENTH time, know that they have no desire to stop the “break up to make up” game. This is all it is to these people.
Love shouldn’t be like that.
Stop letting these people back into your life…BECAUSE THEY WILL NEVER CHANGE.
And you owe them absolutely…NOTHING.
No Shame In Therapy
Narcissistic people can do a wonder on someone’s mind and psychology.
In fact, I wrote an article called “10+ Mental Illnesses Caused By Staying With A Narcissists“.
The narcissists and their legion of fools can slowly drive you insane. And sometimes the best help you can ever receive is from a stranger.
When everyone around you is trying to convince you that YOU are the bad person, sometimes an objective view of you from someone you don’t know maybe what saves you from drowning in the sea of insanity the narc and their legion of fools try and drown you in.
Therapy can help heal in ways that reading blogs, listening to videos, and talking with other WARRIORS (we are not survivors, we are warriors) can ever do.
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Narcs have a legion of fools behind them to hurt you, I think it would be a good thing to build your own army of warriors and allies to help stand by your side.