Ah! Love. There is nothing quite like it. Love can make us feel like we are flying and it can heal in so many ways. And this is especially true for the narcissist. Despite them lacking empathy (which is a prerequisite feeling one needs to…LOVE) they can still love you. Because your love can change the narcissist.
Pay no attention to all the previous exes. Pay no attention to how they hurt you and treat you badly. And pay no attention to all the NEEDLESS and POINTLESS arguments. Just keep on trying and keep on wasting your time and life.
Because your love can change the narcissist.
Hey! Keep On Wasting Your Life
Forget about what all your friends and family say in regards to your narcissist. They don’t know them AS YOU KNOW THEM, right?
Despite the verbal, emotional, psychological and maybe even physical abuse — is a person who is just hurting inside.
And it is YOUR JOB to be their punching bag.
It is your job to take the blame for their messed up day. It is your job to be the brunt of their criticism to hide their inadequacies. And it is your job to apologize to them over something that happened to them…15 years ago.
Oh! You weren’t there?
It’s YOUR JOB to say sorry and stroke their fragile little egos.
But, I am pretty sure you don’t need me telling you that, right?
Because you are so SURE that your love can change them. You are so sure that they are just hurt people — and that with enough UNDERSTANDING AND CARE they will change; like SO MANY OF THEM DO.
And you are so sure that despite everyone close to you telling you they are not good for you — and even your subconscious telling you to leave — that everyone is wrong.
You losing weight due to stress…is a good thing.
You missing out on sleep because they may attack you at any moment… is a good thing.
And you aging at a much faster rate due to all the chaos and anxiety that you developed… is a good thing.
This is what a healthy relationship looks like, right?
Keep On Listening To Your Narcissists
Keep on listening to your manipulative sociopathic narcissists. And do so when your parents, who have always been there for you, tell you to leave.
They don’t really love you as the narcissist loves you.
But I am sure you know that.
I bet your loving narcissist has told you that so many times. Especially after their attacks.
They attack you and hurt you because they love you.
Never forget that.
True love is all about sacrifice and pain.
That makes sense, right?
So next time you get a shiner, male or female (females abuse their boyfriends and husbands as well), cover that pretty little shiner up.
You must hide that most precious gift otherwise someone might take your narcissist away.
And you wouldn’t want that.
This Is A Spoof
Listen and understand this…this is all a spoof.
Do NOT waste your time and your life BELIEVING that your love can change a narcissist. These people have NO DESIRE TO CHANGE.
- messing with your esteem
- embarrassing you
- humiliating you
- sabotaging you
- HURTING YOU
It pleases the hell out of them to know that they can destroy a life. Sucess to these creatures is in destroying as much as they can.
If your family has ALWAYS BEEN THERE for you and they are telling you that the person is NOT GOOD FOR YOU…LISTEN.
Don’t let the narcissist destroy the most precious bond. There are many families out there who don’t have a strong connection.
I promise you…that a better partner is out there for you. Your narcissist is NOT the end all be all.
There is someone better (Always) out there waiting for you.
Just get rid of that trash behind you to go find them.
Check out my previous spoof article “How To Get a Narcissist Back After Discard“.
No Shame In Therapy
Narcissistic people can do a wonder on someone’s mind and psychology.
In fact, I wrote an article called “10+ Mental Illnesses Caused By Staying With A Narcissists“.
The narcissists and their legion of fools can slowly drive you insane. And sometimes the best help you can ever receive is from a stranger.
When everyone around you is trying to convince you that YOU are the bad person, sometimes an objective view of you from someone you don’t know maybe what saves you from drowning in the sea of insanity the narc and their legion of fools try and drown you in.
Therapy can help heal in ways that reading blogs, listening to videos, and talking with other WARRIORS (we are not survivors, we are warriors) can ever do.
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Narcs have a legion of fools behind them to hurt you, I think it would be a good thing to build your own army of warriors and allies to help stand by your side.