Going no contact will save not only your sanity but also your life. Here are five people you need to ignore during no contact. Interacting with any of these negative people below will ONLY help the narcissist string you back into their insanity.
If you want to be free, liberated and happy…you HAVE TO leave these people.
Narcissists, along with their legion of FOOLS, are hellbent on destroying lives. Narcissists seem to have an innate desire to see people suffer. There is no reasoning with them. Nor any semblance of logic with them.
There is only chaos and destruction.
By leaving these agents of chaos, they will have NO ONE but themselves to destroy. And believe me, once you have taken yourself out of their lives, they will destroy themselves.
These people are LUNATICS!
They have NO RIGHT TO DESTROY A LIFE.
If you are thinking about going no contact…GO NO CONTACT.
Tell me, have you gone no contact? And if so, how long did it last?
5 People You Need To Ignore During No Contact
1 – The Flying Monkey: People You Need To Ignore During No Contact
“For the glory of my narc master. I will destroy MY life and get NOTHING in return.”
I make it no secret I believe flying monkeys to be the most IDIOTIC people you will ever come across on this planet. So needy to be “wanted” by someone, these fools give their lives to narcissists, who use them to destroy lives.
And so, what do flying monkeys do that make staying no contact so tricky?
The fact that they have NO LIVES.
Now, what do I mean by this?
Flying monkeys are:
- Gossipers – “I will spend all my time AFTER WORK gossiping about you. Why, you ask? Because my master told me to.”
- Smear campaigns – “I wake up three hours BEFORE work to start up on the smear campaign, instead of preparing myself for work. I find it more productive to create lies and spread rumors. I am using my time effectively.”
- Stalkers – “I check through your garbage to see what you are eating or what bills you haven’t paid. I want to see that you couldn’t possibly move on and be happy after leaving my master. No one can do that.”
- Bottom Feeders – “I follow you to the bathroom when you take a number 2. Your s*it stinks as well. SEE! SEE! YOU AREN’T SO GREAT. SEE! SEEEEEEEEEE!”
- FOOLS OF THE HIGHEST CALIBER – “I will waste this ONE LIFE I HAVE trying to make your life miserable. What do I gain from it? NOTHING. I am such a good boy/girl. Master will rub my head when I give them all the details.”
Fools! Truly They Are Fools
Flying monkeys will follow you and keep tabs on you. They will “bump into you” on the street and ask you, “How are you doing”? They do this to see if you have actually moved on in life.
To a flying monkey, this is impossible.
So low on the intellectual pyramid, they cannot conceive of people actually moving on.
Flying monkeys may also, like the fools they are, tell you how good the narcissist is. They do this to try and provoke you into getting angry or sad that the narc is happy.
When you meet these bottom-feeders, and that is WHAT THEY ARE, smile and say, “So nice to see you, but I don’t have time to chat. I have an urgent meeting with someone about something amazing coming in my future. Nice seeing you. Bye.”
Say this and smile.
And if they bring up how good the narc is doing, say this: “It is so good they TOO (emphasize the “too” moved on. That is SO good to see that we have BOTH been able to move on and be happy after the split.”
This will blow the semi-conscious Flying monkey’s mind up.
“Bu..Bu…But. I don’t..I…uh…Wha..Who…I don’t understand. How can anyone be happy without my master? My head. It hurts. It hurttttttssss.”
God, these people are HILARIOUS.
And don’t say this is how I perceive them.
This is how these bottom feeders are. I just see them for the truth they really are.
2 – The Enablers
“Hey, man. You just…you just need to forgive, man. Let them back in your life, man. They miss you, man. Just be the bigger person, man. You know, man. You are a good person, man. Hey, man. You want to smoke a joint man. Come on, man. Peace and love, man. Can I sleep on your couch?”
I see enablers as Hippies.
“Love can solve everything, man. Groovy. Fight the power…BY DOING NOTHING.“
I have one thing to say to enablers:
Listen, you must steer clear, far away from these people. Enablers only feed the narcissist ego. They will make you feel like a bad guy FOR SIMPLY SAYING, “I DON’T DESERVE TO BE MISTREATED.”
These people, I swear, would have sided with Hitler.
These people are so low on the moralistic scale of humanity that they will bring you down to believing you are wrong for not putting up with abuse. You will be considered a ba guy for NOT putting up with abuse.
Aside from me wanting them to “SHUT THE HELL UP“, they can also “F*CK OFF“!
If you are going “No Contact” and someone tells you that you are a narcissist for going no contact and not putting up with the drama and harassment, ignore them as well.
3 – The Drama Queen (The Attention Whore)
“Woe is me. I feel so sad and down BECAUSE YOU LOST EVERYTHING. Why do bad things happen to MEEEEEEEEEE!”
Cut these people out of your life. Seeking help from a drama queen will get you NOWHERE.
They are not under the influence of the narcissist, but they sure as hell can indirectly make you feel like you are alone. Which, in turn, could lead you to go back to the narcissist.
These are the people who don’t want drama in their life…THEY NEED IT.
They need drama in their life. And they will make your situation worse by making what the narc did to you hurt even more.
Through their “listening”.
“Tell me again how they made you feel.”
They do this to try and squeeze that hurt and pain out of you so that they can absorb it and use it for their purposes.
4 – The Kidults
“Ah-ha! Ah-ha! Nyeh! Nyeh” (Tongue being licked out)
We are told that the real world is tough.
Welcome to the real world is what so many people tell us.
But the truth of the matter is that the real world is nothing more than us stepping back in time.
“Boss! Boss! Frank won’t look at me. And…and he took my apple juice”
“Debbie! Samantha says she’s not your friend.”
“Mom! Mom! I scraped my knee falling on the stairs.” “Okay! Ryan. Put down your beer and I’ll kiss it and make it better.” (Ryan, by the way, is 40 years old)
These people NEVER GREW UP.
Do not go to them with your problem. These kidults will find your hurt and pain humorous.
5 – The Masses
“Everyone is against you. So, I have to, because…you know. I HAVE NO FREE WILL.”
The masses. The sheeple. These facsimiles all running around going NOWHERE.
Listen, the people you may have worked with and who knew about the gossiping and rumors, LEAVE THEM ALONE AS WELL.
Cut all ties with anyone associated with the narcissist.
5 People You Need To Ignore During No Contact
Your healing will begin the moment you cut ties wit tall these people. Do not give any of them an inch back into your life. As the saying goes, “give them an inch, and they will take a mile.”
No Shame In Therapy
Narcissistic people can do a wonder on someone’s mind and psychology.
In fact, I wrote an article called “10+ Mental Illnesses Caused By Staying With A Narcissists“.
The narcissists and their legion of fools can slowly drive you insane. And sometimes the best help you can ever receive is from a stranger.
When everyone around you is trying to convince you that YOU are the bad person, sometimes an objective view of you from someone you don’t know maybe what saves you from drowning in the sea of insanity the narc and their legion of fools try and drown you in.
Therapy can help heal in ways that reading blogs, listening to videos, and talking with other WARRIORS (we are not survivors, we are warriors) can ever do.
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Narcs have a legion of fools behind them to hurt you, I think it would be a good thing to build your own army of warriors and allies to help stand by your side.