Ghosting is, without a doubt, one of the best ways to get back at your narcissists.
When you disappear from a narcissist life and do so without them being able to prepare for your departure from their lives, it makes them confused.
Once you leave a narcissist, he will go batsh*t insane because, in his/her mind, they view you as their toy or plaything.
So to take yourself away from them when they have not finished playing with you is akin to taking away a video game from a kid who is about to level up on a new level.
What Are Narcissists?
A narcissist is someone who excessively admires and loves themselves. They have an inflated sense of self-importance and believe they are better than others.
Narcissists are often arrogant, boastful, and manipulative. They crave attention and approval and can become angry or hostile if they don’t get what they want.
A narcissistic personality disorder is a mental disorder that affects about 1% of the population. It is more common in men than women and usually begins in adolescence or early adulthood.
If you think you might be a narcissist, talk to a mental health professional for a diagnosis.
What Are Personality Traits
Personality traits are the characteristics that make up an individual’s personality. There are many different theories on personality traits and how they are formed. Some believe that personality traits are innate, while others think they’re learned through experience.
Personality traits can be divided into four main categories: physical, mental, social, and spiritual.
- Physical traits are a person’s appearance, such as height, weight, and eye color.
- Mental traits, such as intelligence and memory, are how a person thinks and processes information.
- Social traits involve how a person interacts with others, such as their communication skills and ability to work in a team.
- Spiritual traits encompass a person’s values and beliefs, such as their sense of humor and morality.
Most experts agree that personality is composed of both nature and nurture.
What Are Dark Triad Traits
Three key personality traits make up the dark triad – narcissism, Machiavellianism, and psychopathy.
A lack of empathy, a tendency towards manipulation and deception, and a focus on self-gratification characterize these traits.
People who exhibit dark triad traits often have difficulty sustaining long-term relationships and may be more prone to antisocial behavior.
While the dark triad is not an official diagnosis, research suggests that these personality traits are relatively stable across time and cultures.
What Are Narcissistic Traits
In psychology, narcissism is often defined as excessive self-love, vanity, and egotism. However, these traits can manifest themselves in different ways and degrees.
Here are some common narcissistic traits:
People with narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) tend to have an inflated sense of their importance and a deep need for admiration. They believe they’re superior to others and have little regard for other people’s feelings.
Narcissists often fantasize about unlimited success, power, brilliance, beauty, or ideal love. They may believe they deserve special treatment and may be jealous of others they perceive as threats.
Narcissistic people can be charming and charismatic at first glance, but their true colors often start to show once you get to know them better.
What Happens When You Ignore a Narcissist Who Dumped You?
When you ignore a narcissist after they have dumped you and “ignore” in this situation, I mean move on with your life, they will feel hurt.
They will feel hurt because, in their warped minds, they expect you to come chasing after them.
They expect us to cry and beg them to come back into their lives.
They discard us and get rid of us because they want us to feel like we are worthless, but when we accept their discard or accept their silent treatment, it takes them off balance.
They do not expect us to do such a thing because, in their minds, they think they are our world.
Ghost The Narcissist In Your Life
I make it no secret that “No Contact” is something I believe ALL OF US SHOULD DO when dealing with these creatures.
They do not have the right to destroy a life. They do not have the right to stomp on people’s dreams.
And they do not have the right to make people suffer from depression and many other mental illnesses.
And so for those who have been hurt by their narcissist and want to get back at them, and who want to stick it to their narcissist, I highly recommend you try “ghosting.”
If ever there were a tactic that could quickly destroy a narcissist, it is ghosting.
So What Is Ghosting?
Ghosting is when you, or maybe the narcissist, completely disappears from someone.
A person who “ghost” cannot be found on social media. You disappear on a person without any explanation.
Why this is such a powerful tactic and why you should use it against a narcissist is because:
- Narcissistic people think they own people – and this will make them feel like they lost their keys. They will go batshit insane. “I can’t find my keys.” This is salient because they are forced to do things they don’t want to do alone. They have to…wait for it…regulate their own damn emotions, like an adult.
- This will cause them to think they are not good enough – by leaving them and ghosting them so that they never can get in contact with you, that will crush their ego. They are possessive creatures. Taking yourself away from them is like taking a bit of them away. And they will feel like they are not good enough on their own.
- It crushes their ego – you take yourself away from them…WITHOUT THEIR CONSENT. This is a MASSIVE DISRESPECT.
What Happens If You Don’t Reach Out During The Narcissist Periods Of Silent Treatment?
When you do not reach out to a narcissist after they have discarded you or given you the silent treatment, you cause narcissistic injury.
Again, they think that we will come chasing after them. They believe that we will come to beg them to take us back.
By accepting the silent treatment and taking it further by ghosting them, we cause them a massive narcissistic injury.
These people feed on attention, and we are starving them to death when we ghost them.
Ghosting Your Narcissists: A Great Revenge
I preach the good gospel of NO CONTACT, and I believe that if you want to get revenge on your narcissist for all the sh*tty things they did to you, you need to ghost them.
What good is it to stay with them?
They will only mess up your life more. They have no sympathy. No integrity. No honor or empathy.
When you ghost them, you not only hurt them on a MASSIVE LEVEL, “How dare they leave me,” but you also heal yourself.
Stop questioning, do narcissists really stop thinking about you just like that after the discard?
If they stop thinking about you, that is a good thing. And it si even better when you forget about them.
It is like you guys never even met!
By leaving and cutting all ties with them, they will go batshit insane, foaming at the mouth over the fact they don’t know where you are.
Because these people lack emotional regulation, they will stress the hell out and cause a myriad of health issues for themselves.
This sounds harsh.
But this is nothing compared to what the narcissist will do to you IF YOU STAY.
Go No Contact and Ghost the hell out of these people.
Their feelings of inadequacy will haunt them.
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