Don’t Tell The Narcissist How and Why They Hurt You

Don’t Tell The Narcissist How and Why They Hurt You

Don’t Tell The Narcissist How and Why They Hurt You

Listen to me very closely. You must not EVER tell the narcissist how and why they hurt you.

I know it may seem very tempting to do so. But to tell them what they have done and why it hurt you will only…

Don’t Tell The Narcissist How and Why They Hurt You

Don't Tell The Narcissist How and Why They Hurt You

Telling the narcissist how and why they have hurt you only GIVES them the tools and the fuel to hurt you even more.

It is like handing them the arrow to hit you in your weak spot.

You MUST understand that these people have no empathy and the pain that you feel, is a joy for them. It is a high for them to know that you are in pain BECAUSE of them.

Narcissistic people are MONSTERS who derive the greatest joy in torturing those who dared to love them.

There is no reasoning with them, and there sure as hell is no getting them to empathize with how you feel.

I know it may hurt, but don’t try connecting with them. Ignore their smear campaigns (they do this to hurt you even more).

Stop acknowledging the flying monkeys that come by your way. And stop looking at their FAKE lives on social media.

Know what they post on social media is just a lie and most times they are doing things JUST to make you feel less than.

Start ghosting them. It is the only way to keep you sane.

They get a huge kick out of devaluing you.

I know this may not be the most uplifting post, but trust me, your future self will thank me later on, for not giving these monsters the tools they need to destroy you.

If you need consoling I HIGHLY HIGHLY RECOMMEND speaking with a therapist. Therapy can help you from falling back into those monster’s hands.

No Shame In Therapy

Narcissistic people can do a wonder on someone’s mind and psychology. 

In fact, I wrote an article called “10+ Mental Illnesses Caused By Staying With A Narcissists“.

The narcissists and their legion of fools can slowly drive you insane. And sometimes the best help you can ever receive is from a stranger. 

When everyone around you is trying to convince you that YOU are the bad person, sometimes an objective view of you from someone you don’t know maybe what saves you from drowning in the sea of insanity the narc and their legion of fools try and drown you in. 

Therapy can help heal in ways that reading blogs, listening to videos, and talking with other WARRIORS (we are not survivors, we are warriors) can ever do. 

Join my Facebook Fan Page “No Shame In Therapy” to get a 20% discount on your first-month session, as well as articles and updates on the benefits of therapy.

Narcs have a legion of fools behind them to hurt you, I think it would be a good thing to build your own army of warriors and allies to help stand by your side. 

3 thoughts on “Don’t Tell The Narcissist How and Why They Hurt You

  1. Doesn’t this make it easier to play them into your hands if you give them something that doesn’t hurt you but screws them over? Just a thought and asking for a friend.

  2. “Joy” is the wrong word for what they get from knowing your suffering.
    They want to feel bad – so it is not Joy they are feeling or looking for.

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