Do Narcissists Want You To Chase After Them? Written by Nick Horeton
It really is the perfect word, isn’t it?
You know I think of scrunching up a piece of paper and tossing it in the bin when I hear or think about that word.
Like useless junk tossed away and forgotten.
But…what act could possibly make someone crawl and beg for answers? After all, you would throw yourself in front of a bullet because you love the person so much.
Do Narcissists Want You To Chase After Them?
HOOK, LINE, AND SINKER…
YOU’VE BEEN CAUGHT IN THE NARCISSISTIC WEB AND GETTING OUT OF THIS MESSY ATTACHMENT IS THE HARDEST THING POSSIBLE IN YOUR LIFE.
By the discard phase, the narcissist already knows you have very strong feelings for them. They know they are the alpha to omega to you.
THEY KNOW THEY GOT YOU WHERE THEY NEED YOU.
Bang.. you’re dumped. On your a55 sitting there boiling your eyes out because the love of your life has just fkd you off for no reason you can make sense of it. No closure just confusion.
“Please baby, whatever I’ve done I’m sorry.”
“Why are you doing this to me. It hurts. Please stop.”
“What have I done wrong. Don’t block me here also.”
“STOP FN HURTING ME. STOP STOP DAMN YOU STOP STOP STOP. PLEASE PLEASE.”
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They are just sitting there absorbing all your behaviors and loving how much you make them feel superior.
They own you. Narcs have you under their thumb. They sit there thinking, “Yeah…I’m the greatest. Lol, you can’t stay away or stop trying to contact me. Oh my, I’m just so wanted… ah, I’m loving it when you beg.”
They have conditioned you to the finest supply source and you unknowingly have accepted it and haven’t realized you have been pulled into someone’s madness that they call their reality.
So what happens when you decide to not react at all and just ignore them?
If they haven’t found your replacement yet they will 100% come back to you. They always will.
If you don’t react they will throw some lines at you to see if you bite.
It really depends if your replacement is found. If they screw up and fail to latch on to new supply they’ll beg you to take them back.
This is how their game works. If you just try what I’m saying you’ll get confirmation you’re dealing with a narc.
Should you be strong enough to resist the narc and their potential new supply doesn’t come through you’ll find that they’ll beg and crawl to you to take them back.
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