Don’t Feed Their Delusions Of Grandeur
Hey! Stop chasing after the narcissist because they are not worth it.
I know for many, being chased after can be an exhilarating experience.
For me, not so much, as I am an introvert.
If I like someone and they like me, I don’t see why we should do the whole chase thing. It just wastes time.
Time that we can use to get to know one another. Learn one another. And be with one another.
Time is all we have—and chasing after Someone is such a HUGE WASTE OF TIME.
I am pretty sure that some of my readers will disagree, which I wholly understand. Please feel free to let me know what precisely the “chase” makes you feel good.
Narcissists have an insatiable desire to be chased.
They love to be sought after. It gives their fragile and distorted little egos a boost.
“Someone likes me. Oh, goodie.”
Now, I am not above playing in a relationship…because play is a crucial element in keeping your relationship healthy, fun, and exciting.
But with Narcs, the fun to them is to DENY YOU…THEM.
With ordinary people, “chasing” may very well end up with someone getting caught. But with narcissists…hahaha.
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Narcissists Love Being Chased: Don’t Feed Their Delusions Of Grandeur
Does A Narcissist Want You To Chase Them?
The short answer to this is yes. Narcissists love when people chase after them. It makes them feel desirable — and to people who are addicted to other people, this is a “high,” unlike anything any drug can do for them.
Narcissists are bat balls insane at the highest level. To them, seeing people suffering is the ultimate joy.
This is precisely why discarding someone is such fun for them. They love the idea that they can discard someone and then have that person come running back to them.
It makes them feel empowered, relevant, and valuable.
And because it gives them this feeling they need to keep doing over and over and over. It is like a drug for them (discarding you and having you come back to them).
Stop Chasing After The Narcissist: Don’t Feed Their Delusions Of Grandeur
You may not want to hear this, but you need to hear this.
What Do Narcissists Do When You Ignore Them?
- Send you a text message, “Hey! How are you doing? ;)”
- Tell their flying monkeys to meet you and tell you, they “asked about you.”
- Social Media stalk you (which is why ghosting is such a huge advantage)
- Smear Campaign you
- Physically stalk you
- Some may even try and attack you
How To Crush Them?
Simply stop chasing them. Don’t respond to their text, messages on social media, or to any comment, a “friend” (most likely their flying monkeys) pass your way.
Once you show them they are no longer desired by you, they will shrivel up like the little parasite vermin they are.
This is not a polemical statement. Narcs are in every sense of the word “parasites”.
Time is ALL we have. And every second you WASTE (not spend) chasing after a narc — you waste on something that will never come.
Stop chasing the narcissist because they are NOT WORTH IT.
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