Why You Must Not Contact The Narcissists After A Discard

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Why You Must Not Contact The Narcissists After A Discard

It is very important to know your/our worth! Narcissistic people discard people because they longer need them or because they want to hurt the person.

Either way, the discard is not a means of ending things amicably but more so to hurt a person.

Reaching out to a narcissist after they have discarded, you only serve to boost their small, petty egos.

It shows them that “Hey! I am so amazing! This person NEEDS ME in their lives. I am such a catch.”

Note: I have been published in a book called “Empathic Warriors Survival Stories“. If you are looking for a bit of inspiration feel free to give this book a read. 

Why You Must Not Contact The Narcissists After A Discard

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Moving on can be very difficult for many people, especially those who have been heavily trauma bonded with the narcissists or who have developed codependent tendencies.

Some people develop Stockholm syndrome-like qualities and prefer to be with someone who abuses them, puts them down, gaslight the hell out of them, places them through so much drama, and so much more!

The human mind, once broken and fractured, can be a difficult thing to repair.

Chasing after the narcissist and trying to reopen a failed relationship is NOT a good thing to do!

Imagine it this way!

You once lived in Chernobyl and were sick every day from the toxic environment — but you could get out of Chernobyl and live in a healthy environment.

What sane reason could you possibly argue for going back and living in Chernobyl?

This is the same idea for trying to go back to a toxic narcissistic relationship.

If you were discarded, see it as a blessing that you no longer have to deal with their kidult irrational acts and behavior.

If you need support, then feel free to check out these support groups!

Codependency will destroy you!

Get to the heart of the problem as to why you feel you need to have that person in your life, and you will see that you aren’t missing out on anything important.

There are so many better fish out there in the sea, don’t settle on a goldfish!

Never Contact after a discard!

Struggling With C-PTSD?

I often say that living with a narcissist is like living in a war zone! This comparison may very well seem hyperbolic, but research has shown that living around narcissists can have the same effects on a person’s mind as people living in a war zone!

I wrote an article describing the “10+ Mental Illnesses Caused By Staying With Narcissists“.

These people are monsters, plain and simple.

If you are struggling with emotional flashbacks, dealing with mental and emotional battles that NO ONE but yourself seems to see and feel, and if you find it hard to get out of bed every day, you may be dealing with C-PTSD.

As great as support groups may be, or as profound as articles can be, they are no substitute for professional help. 

Sometimes the best way to heal and move forward is with therapy.

Speaking with someone and getting the hurt off your chest is a great way to unload.

Online Therapy is a site that offers visitors the chance to speak with professional therapists who will be able to help you get through your emotional and psychological battles.

If you sign up with my link, you can get 20% off your first month’s session.

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I call myself the Rational Humorist. Narcs to me are cancer to humanity. The only way to beat cancer is to fight back against it.

The best way to defeat a narc is to see them as the jokes they are.

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