Triggering warning keeps you stuck in pain. They do not strengthen you. They do not help you. And they sure as hell do not help you HEAL.
What get’s many of us to crumble, to hurt, to fall, to sink into the bottomless void of nihilism…is this idea that if we could just get the narcissist to understand what they did to us, then we could heal. But understand this the narcissists will not understand you.
For many people having everyone we know around them, be against them, can be a crippling experience. We are, after all, social animals and the idea of being left alone by ourselves can be frightening and dehumanizing; to a point. When your narcissists turn everyone against you, the best thing to do is to simply…FORGET ABOUT EVERYONE, and here is why.
It is impossible to get someone to understand you when they are hellbent on NOT UNDERSTANDING YOU. The narcissist will know what they do is wrong and they will try and drive us insane trying to prove to them their errors. So…stop fighting for the narcissist to understand you.
I know for many, this may be a touchy situation. And for many, they feel like they OWE their parents something because as these narcissistic parents so often spout “I gave you life” — thus I guess meaning from their airtight logic that, that somehow gives them the right to berate, violate, harm, hurt, destroy a childhood, and take so much from their child.
Surviving narcissism is a possibility and in this article, I want to show you how you can move on and grow STRONGER because of the relationship. Your life did not BEGIN with the narcissist and it doesn’t have to END after being or staying with the narcissist.
It can be very difficult healing and moving on after a narcissistic relationship. The benefits of incense for your physical & psychological well-being are numerous. Incense could potentially help in your healing process. For many of us, the toxic mentality and the corrosive nature of the narcissists has contaminated so much of our character and spirit that moving on and trying to heal can at times feel like it is not attainable.
Moving on after a narcissistic relationship is not the easiest thing. In addition to this blog about positive self-forgiveness quotes, I would also like to offer you one of my earlier blogs. This being my “100 Ways To Let Go And Move On With Life After Narcissistic Abuse” article.
One of the most difficult things about the healing process is learning how to forgive yourself for staying with the narcissists so long. We beat ourselves up thinking and ruminating on all the time that has been TAKEN from us.
If only the pain, anger, resentment, frustration, sorrow and hurt would go away would we learn to move on with life after narcissistic abuse. Narcissistic abuse hurts while we are with the narcissist and long after we have left the narcissist.