Can a Narcissist Love
Narcissism is often associated with negative connotations, including entitlement, self-absorption, and a lack of empathy. But can a narcissist experience love?
Though the jury is still out on whether or not a narcissist can genuinely love another person, some experts believe a narcissist can experience what resembles love.
To understand how this could be, it’s essential to understand what drives narcissism.
Narcissistic Tendencies: What Are Some Common Narcissistic Traits
Narcissism is a personality disorder characterized by an inflated sense of self-importance, a need for excessive attention and admiration, and a lack of empathy for others.
People with this disorder often feel entitlement and are preoccupied with power and success. A narcissistic personality disorder affects men and women, but it is more commonly diagnosed in men.
People with narcissistic personality disorder often have difficulty maintaining healthy relationships because they need control and lack empathy.
The narcissist’s behavior is to control their partner by making demands or ultimatums or withdrawing emotionally when they feel they are not being given the attention they need. Narcissists may also become angry or aggressive when their ego is threatened, triggering a narcissistic rage.
What Are Amorous Narcissists?
Amorous narcissists display high levels of self-absorption, an excessive need for admiration, and a lack of empathy.
They are often charming and charismatic, making them appealing to others.
However, their lack of empathy and inability to truly connect with others often leads to relationship difficulties.
Amorous narcissists often have a history of short-term relationships and may use others for their own needs without regard for the other person’s feelings.
If you are in a relationship with an amorous narcissist, you may feel unimportant, unvalued, and used.
It is essential to understand the signs of an amorous narcissist so that you can make informed decisions about your well-being.
Narcissist Loves: What Do Narcissists Really Want In Romantic Relationships
Narcissists do not perceive love the same way that empaths do. It is salient for you to understand this so that you do not waste time, energy, and your heart on someone who does not view love the same way you do.
Love for a person with a narcissistic personality disorder is not the same as it is from a caring person.
Here is what you can expect from a relationship with a narcissist:
- Unconditional love – this is BAD because these people expect their partners overly focus on them. The narcissist becomes the partner’s whole world.
- Positive attention – they will expect you to always give them praise and adulation for simply being who they are. The narcissist’s ego can never be satiated.
- Narcissists prioritize power – They will DEMAND that you sacrifice YOUR dreams, goals, and life mission to make them happy.
- Sexual satisfaction – They view you as a piece of meat
- Prefer dominance – It’s their way or NO way
How Do Most Narcissists Express Love
Narcissists love to be in the spotlight and often express their love for others in grandiose ways. They may buy expensive gifts, take their loved ones on lavish vacations, or shower them with compliments.
While these gestures may seem genuine, they are often done with ulterior motives. Narcissists need constant validation and attention and often use their loved ones to get it.
This narcissist’s seductive veneer is known as love bombing.
What Is Love bombing?
Love bombing is a term used to describe a manipulative technique employed to gain control over someone. It usually involves showering the victim with affection, attention, and gifts to create an emotional dependency. Love bombing can damage both parties involved, as it often leads to feelings of betrayal and resentment.
How long will a narcissist love bomb?
Narcissists are known for their love bombing tactics. But how long does this phase of the relationship last?
Narcissists love bomb their partners to gain control over them. This tactic creates an intense bond between narcissist and their victim. The victim becomes emotionally dependent on the narcissist and is likelier to do what the narcissist wants.
The love bombing stage usually lasts for a few months, but it can go on longer if the victim doesn’t catch on. Once narcissists have what they want, they often move on to someone else. If you’re in a relationship with a narcissist, be prepared for them to lose interest and move on eventually.
Early Childhood: The Making of a Narcissist
Narcissism is often considered a negative trait associated with people who are excessively self-absorbed and lack empathy for others. But what causes someone to become a narcissist?
According to some experts, a few key factors can contribute to the development of narcissistic personality disorder (one of many toxic mental disorders).
For example, people who have been raised in environments that were excessively critical or unsupportive may be more likely to develop narcissism.
Additionally, people who have experienced traumatic events or significant life stressors may also be more susceptible to developing a narcissistic personality disorder.
While it’s not fully understood why some people develop narcissism, it is clear that both nature and nurture play a role in its formation.
If you know someone who seems excessively self-centered, it’s essential to understand that there may be more beneath the surface.
These Personality Disorders Can Destroy An Emotional Empath
If you’re in a relationship with a partner with the following personality disorders, be prepared for a roller coaster ride of emotions. These disorders can wreak havoc on even the most emotionally stable person, so try to brace yourself for the challenges ahead.
Narcissistic Personality Disorder: A narcissistic partner will be excessively self-involved and demanding. They may try to control every aspect of your life and expect you always to be available to them. This can be extremely draining, both emotionally and physically.
Borderline Personality Disorder: A partner with this disorder may exhibit drastic mood swings, often going from happy and loving to angry and resentful at the drop of a hat. They may also have difficulty regulating their emotions, leading to explosive outbursts.
Emotional Empathy and Why It’s So Hard To Leave Toxic People
Empathy is a fantastic gift, but it is a gift and a power that needs to be shared with only certain people.
For many naive empaths, they think that enough love given to anyone can change the person for the better.
They believe their positive feelings can turn coal souls into diamonds.
But this is just a fairytale way of thinking, and it is the main reason why so many people lose so many years to decades of their lives.
These people can never develop positive feelings for their supply because, to them, a supply is just a toy, not a human being.
Can a narcissist fall in love with a narcissist?
It’s no secret that narcissists have a knack for being in love with themselves. But can a narcissist fall in love with another narcissist?
While it may seem like the perfect match on paper, the reality is that two narcissists in a relationship can be a recipe for disaster. Here’s why:
Narcissists are all about power and control. They need to be the center of attention, and they need to be right all the time. So when two narcissists are together, they’re constantly trying to one-up each other. There’s no room for compromise or cooperation.
And because they’re so self-focused, Narcissists have difficulty empathizing with others. So even if they find some common ground, it’s usually short-lived because they eventually get bored or frustrated with each other.
There are, on rare occasions, times when they come together, but this is when they both hate a person.
They will love how they both hate a person or how they can abuse a person.
An example is two narcissistic parents who get a kick out of emotionally, mentally, psychologically, and spiritually abusing their own DAMN kid(s).
SCREW NARCISSISTIC PARENTS.
Hell is too good for these monsters.
The Reality: A Narcissist’s True Colors
Most people are put off by someone who is constantly talking about themselves and their accomplishments. But what if you can’t seem to get this person out of your life? You may be dealing with a narcissist.
Narcissists are experts at manipulation and can be very charming. They often use flattery and compliments to get what they want. Narcissists also tend to take advantage of people and may become angry or violent if they don’t get their way.
If you’re in a relationship with a narcissist, you may feel like you’re always walking on eggshells. You may also feel like you’re not good enough or don’t matter. It’s important to remember that narcissists only care about themselves and their own needs.
The Downfall: When a Narcissist Loses Control
When narcissists’ usual sources of narcissistic supply no longer love them, they can become frantic. They may do anything to try to regain that sense of power and control.
This can lead to them becoming manipulative and even abusive. If you’re in a relationship with a narcissist, it’s essential to be aware of this behavior to protect yourself.
How To Avoid This Type Of Relationship With a Narcissistic Game Playing?
Here are a few things you may want to keep in mind:
- Develop knowledge about these monsters – Give my articles a read as I delve into the psychological reports of these people or watch Youtube videos (Dr. Ramini is the BEST).
- Improve Your Emotional Intelligence – These people are kidults. Be an adult and learn to expect nothing from them.
- Have higher self esteem – If you love your “true you,” then what is the hatred of the world supposed to mean? Self love lead to boundaries, and boundaries are good because they protect you from these parasites.
- Understand that narcissism exists and you will never change people like this.
- Conquering shame – forgive yourself for allowing them to hurt you. It was a life lesson. Learn from it and move on to a real romantic love.
- Have an emotional and moral support group to help you vet new partners.
- Remember you are only human looking for romantic partners – there is nothing wrong with wanting to be loved. Just make sure you have boundaries.
Can you love again after a narcissist?
Yes, it is possible to love again after a narcissist. Though it may be difficult, there are ways to move on and find happiness with someone new.
It is important to understand what went wrong in the past relationship and to take steps to ensure that history does not repeat itself. With time and effort, it is possible to open yourself up to love once again.
Final Words
Narcissists have an inflated ego. This mental health disorder makes it very difficult for them to have empathy, thus never being the partner that the partner is to them.
Love is real, but it’s just not with the narcissist.
