5 sneaky things narcissists do
There are certain behaviors in which narcissists resort to getting what they want.
Some sneaky things include lying, manipulating, and taking advantage of others.
Narcissists often have difficulty accepting criticism or being held accountable for their actions, making it difficult to negotiate or resolve conflicts.
This makes it easy for them to take advantage of less savvy or confident people.
5 Sneaky Things Narcissists Do
1 – Sneaky behavior: Gaslighting
Sneaky behavior and gaslighting are two things that should never be in the same sentence. Sneaky behavior is defined as being underhanded or deceptive in one’s actions.
This can be anything from lying to someone about your actions to hiding your true feelings about something.
On the other hand, gaslighting is a form of psychological abuse where the abuser manipulates the victim into questioning their sanity.
It’s often hard to detect gaslighting early on, as the abuser typically starts small and gradually increases their manipulation over time.
If you’re experiencing any sneaky behavior or gaslighting in your relationship, you must reach out for help.
Many resources available online and offline can provide you with support and guidance.
2 – Manipulation tactics: Using guilt and pity
Guilt and pity are two powerful emotions that can be used to manipulate someone. Guilt is the feeling of responsibility for something done or not done.
Pity is the feeling of sympathy aroused by the sight of suffering, misfortune, or distress. When used together, they can effectively get what you want from someone.
One common way to use guilt and pity is to make someone feel guilty for not doing something.
For example, you might say, “I thought you were my friend,” if someone doesn’t do what you want them to do. This makes the person feel guilty for not being a good friend and pressures them into doing what they want.
Another way to use guilt and pity is to make someone feel sorry for you. This can be done by playing on their sympathies or making them feel like they need to help you.
3 – The “perfect” persona: Playing the victim
In psychology, there is a term known as the “perfect” persona. This is a persona that an individual adopts to present themselves in the most favorable light possible.
It can be seen as a way to mask one’s true self to avoid judgment or scrutiny from others.
People who struggle with low self-esteem often adopt a perfect persona to make themselves feel better.
One of the most common ways people play the victim is by exaggerating their hardships and experiences.
They may tell stories about how they’ve been mistreated or wronged by others to make themselves appear more sympathetic.
By playing the victim, these individuals can gain attention and admiration from others.
4 – False modesty: Downplaying accomplishments
Seeing someone quick to play down their accomplishments is always a bit puzzling. Maybe they’re embarrassed by them, or perhaps they think that modesty is a virtue. But in most cases, false modesty does more harm than good.
When you act like you’re not that great, people will start wondering why. Why are you trying so hard to hide your talents? What are you afraid of?
In some cases, people might even start to doubt your abilities. If you can’t seem proud of what you’ve done, why should they trust you to do anything else?
Modesty is a valuable trait, but only when it’s genuine. When you falsely downplay your accomplishments, it makes you look like you have something to hide.
5 – Exaggerating achievements: Taking credit for others’ work
In some cases, people will exaggerate their achievements to take credit for the work of others.
This can be done in several ways, such as claiming to have done more work than was done, taking credit for ideas that were not theirs or falsely claiming to have received awards or accolades.
When this happens, it can be challenging to determine who is responsible for the work done.
This type of behavior can be harmful both professionally and personally. A professional setting can lead to decreased trust and cooperation among coworkers.
It can also make it difficult to assess someone’s true abilities and decide who should be promoted or given other opportunities. Personally, it can damage relationships and lead to feelings of betrayal and resentment.
There are several things that you can do if you suspect that someone is exaggerating their achievements.
Narcissistic people can be manipulative and often do sneaky things to get what they want. It is essential to be aware of their tactics to protect yourself from them.
When dealing with a narcissist, setting boundaries and standing up for yourself is essential. Remember, you have the right to be happy and to feel safe.
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