Narcissists all follow a pattern. These people are not as unique as their deluded minds have tricked them into believing. They all follow a pattern.
It can be one of the hardest challenges we will ever face in our lives, moving on. Moving on from an event that took so much of our time, our energy, our hopes, and dreams, but most importantly…ourselves, can be challenging.
It can seem like one of the hardest things to do; walking away. Stepping away from those who have hurt us and wronged us, at times feels like we are giving them permission to hurt us.
Narcissistic people are attention whores. These are people who need others to think about them to validate their worth continually.
I was talking to a friend of mines about relationships and I had open up to her about how often I get in relationships with people — and despite me doing everything they want, or what appears to me as if I am doing everything they want, I would still be the bad guy.
I regret ignoring the red flags with my ex-narc, and for a while, I felt like an idiot. I felt like an idiot because I saw the signs; I heard the rumors. And I felt the…lies.
This is for the person who has just left the narcissist. Either through breaking up (both of you deciding) or you being discarded.
Narcissists almost NEVER CHANGE who they are. These people do not become better. They don’t learn from their past and try and create a better version of themselves in the future.
Life is a fragile gift. It is a small flame of hope that can be gust away in the blink of an eye. Life…is not guaranteed tomorrow.
It is very important to be able to ignore a narcissist and move on with your life. Narcissists are attention whores. These are people who NEED ATTENTION; otherwise, in the lunatic minds, they will disappear somehow.
